there is this girl that i have liked since 2nd-5th grade, i used to always write her poems, sing to her, bother her, and what not. She always acted coldly back at me.then when middle school started, i never got to see her again, until i started a myspace. i sent her a myspace request, she denied and blocked me from myspace. i am in 8th grade , and i dont like her anymore, and i made a promise to myself that i would try to fall in love anymore since it causes nothing but extra stress in school life and im only 13. but just the other night, i had a dream about this girl where me and her got into a serious relationship and we kissed and all that, and its weird cuz i thought i have forgotten all about her, im confused, what do you think about what you have just read? not really a question, i just wanna knoww what you think
2007-01-07 00:22:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres a typo there, where it says
"and i dont like her anymore, and i made a promise to myself that i would try to fall in love anymore since it causes nothing but extra stress in school life and im only 13" that "would" should be "wouldnt"
2007-01-07 00:42:28 · update #1
from 6th grade to now ive been living a normal life getting good grades and not really worrying about girls. But for some reason, i just started think about her again
2007-01-07 01:17:12 · update #2
your hurting because you got rejected. your dream is just a fantasy of what you wanted with her probably. but i think you'e seen a side to her that you don't like and found she is not interested in a relationship with you. that hurts!
but, we are always going to come across people who aren't interested in, but there will also be those who are!
good luck.
2007-01-07 00:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there! i know its difficult but this is your first ever love experience. It could be a crush too. Dont you worry, you'll meet plenty of new girls which are far more attractive and better...
See if your stuck on her you might be neglecting someone who wants to be close to you right now. So take her out of your mind and start living a new life...
Every man faces failures it's not the end of the world. Dont give up on love it will soon knock on your door once again pretty soon...
2007-01-07 01:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by abanat1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you definitely learned one thing at an early age: Falling in love is one big freakin' headache, and it can cause all kinds of problems for you...especially if you act on your feelings in a way that freaks her out. But that kind of thing is hard to stop..."love" is what gets the human race to reproduce, and it's hard to ignore primal urges like that. Especially during puberty!
Another thing you'll learn soon enough...there are zillions of other girls out there! And if one of them doesn't want to talk to you, then do yourself a HUGE favor and make her a distant memory. Otherwise, you'll only be smashing your head into a brick wall.
2007-01-07 00:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by ardra71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well considering ur age, u r too young to start bothering urself 'bout a girl, b/c dis might distract ur study. but at the same time, u can make ur dream a home of reality by making every way possible to meet her again n settle past scores. letting her know what u feel for her is extraordinary.
2007-01-07 00:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by aigberua ayotunde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to stress about the girl... she obviously doesn't like you if she blocked you.
As they say when a door closes another one opens... there'll be someone else.. don't worry about it now.. you're only 13 and have lots of years ahead of you.
2007-01-07 00:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos u think of her too much in day time,that's y u dreamed her at that night.since u said u want to try to fall in love with someone n don't like her anymore.well,try to concentrate ur study by heart,don't contact her,no email her,no phone her,no sms her n no correspond with her,all nothing n stand firm urself.sooner or later u w'd forget about her.
best wishes n happy new year.
2007-01-07 00:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always thinking about her that is why in your subconcsious mind you have been dream of her.. It will pass do not worry. The ocean is full of fishes. You will find others.far better than her. It was just a puppy love for you.
2007-01-07 00:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your too young to be using words like "in love." It's obvious that you still "like" the girl, but she's not interested. Leave her alone before she thinks you're even more weird and focus on your school work.
2007-01-07 00:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you still like her no matter what you are telling us but also you need to give the other girls who may like you a fair chance because it sounds like you like this one girl a lot and i don't know if you do this but it sounds like you might give the others a fair chance and don't compare them to her because there won't be a girl who is better than her unless you let her be her and not compare her to another girl, well good luck
2007-01-07 00:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u trying to forget something will still in your mind, never delete from there, u just have conflict between your heart and mind, and as i see, u just still in your heart but u just deny that, u still love her but u ignore that.. so many times i feel that i forget someone and i don't want to love him anymore i just said to in my mind but in fact i am not i still love him and it's shows in my dreams. so that's is what happened to u... it's more complected is enter ego and super ego and libido but i ex plane to u more simple.. we studded that and it's always right.
2007-01-07 00:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋