hi, I need good advice on this,I had a cold sore around my lips & told my bf about it,&coz he's too paranoid,he assumed it was somethin that happened after being with another man! I even sent him pix of my lips & sites explaining what a cold sore is!!
I love him more than anything, but I really don't owe him an explaination for this,He keeps doubting me & I keep swearing to him & trying to prove him wrong,I never cheated on him,never been with another man while we were together,I even got against my family to be with him.what more does he want?he'd dream of me cheating with men & women & even asked if I were bisexual!!! I can't believe this guy!!!I'm trying to calm myself&act like it's ok but it's not. I really need him2trust me, I even brokeup withhim once or twice after huge fights bout "if" I cheated. I knowhe loves me & is faithful, but I really want him to trust me,if cold sores&bad dreams make him flip, then what wouldn't?!
How can I make him trust me? & How can make sure does?
2007-01-06 23:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by CupCake 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your_name_here:
it doesn't offend me one bit, but I don't like being punished for someone else's mistakes.I'm true to him & he should "assume" stuff from my own actions.
2007-01-06 23:38:14 · update #1
we've been together for 2yrs n'both of us are not attatched to anyone else.
2007-01-07 02:43:54 · update #2
most of the boys are born-paranoids. to make him believe you truly show more interest on him know what he likes and assure him is your hero. your his girl.this will surely work also try to behave mature way thats wat men prefer in girls.
in a public place give him more attention that he needs. while away from him stay in touch with him and change your way of dressing it should be descent as well as trendy.
2007-01-06 23:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him… If he is this paranoid now, what kind of future could you possibly have? All that will happen is that he will become overly possessive, obsessive then abusive and by standing by him you will be enabling him to do so. Then one day all you will want to do is dump him anyway. Save yourself a lot of time and heartache. Go out and find your one in a million. Believe it or not there are a few of us still around you just have to look a little closer to see what’s inside.
2007-01-07 00:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sad jester 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you think he is faithful. Unless you have the same job and live together and do everything TOGETHER, then the chance is there. And the way he acts, he is most likely cheating himself.
I wouldn't stay with him. I made the mistake of marrying that type of guy. Divorce is definitely a high possibility at this point.
2007-01-06 23:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Shel K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him. he's probably an alcoholic and on drugs. cold sores get into the body the same way a cold does by a virus and it may reveal itself in the same spot or as canker sores in the mouth (muscus membranes) especially when youre stressed.
if this guy has a trust problem that he cant work out, cant be comforting to you, then get the hell out of the relationship.
2007-01-06 23:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It looks such as you're heading for murky waters expensive. He might very nicely experience like he's unappreciated with the aid of you. attempt doing something excessive high quality for him, like making a card or calling him or taking him to action picture or something. If he nevertheless acts icy...it would desire to be that this deliver has sailed, enable it circulate and circulate on. superb of success!
2016-10-30 05:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to know the situation. See dear, trust is the main aspect of Love and if there is no faith, love can't be there. I feel you are with some wrong person and you hurried to select your BF. Or he may be attracted to some other girl and so started disbelieving you.
2007-01-06 23:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be with yourself? Tell him that you're not forcing him to believe you ...because you yourself can prove that you are not cheating him even once and if he really love you ofcourse trust is always inside his heart.If not search for another man............jeje
2007-01-06 23:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by franky pau 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As you can see, breaking up with him already and going back to him did not change anything. Call it quits once and for all. He'll blow every chance you give him, his paranoia will make sure he does.
2007-01-06 23:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell ur bf 2 stop b'n such a pu$*y! if he continues to b a pu$*y kick his a*s 2 da curb& give me a call, I won't b paranoid. lol
2007-01-06 23:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have u always been honest w/ him? I have... try to live that way then w/ time he won't worry.
2007-01-06 23:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by lilly l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋