After you've taken an incredible guy for granted for 3 years before he finally ended it with you how do you...

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show him you've changed and deserve another chance?I'm talking about the most amazing boyfriend any girl could ever want(looks,brains,great sense of humour,charm),someone I took seriously for granted because I was too stupid to see how incredibly lucky I was.He gave me everything and was willing to do just about anything I could have possibly ever asked of him and went above and beyond the call of duty of a boyfriend to make me happy.He told me he still loves me and would always be there for me no matter what but he doesn't trust me not to break his heart.What do I do?Please help me.I

Answer 1

You don't know what you've got until it's gone. There is nothing you can do but wait. Continue to talk with him and have him in your life. Ask him out on dates and show him that you can be trusted. In time, he will come around.

BUT, make sure he is the guy you want. I had a similiar situation with a g/f. We dated for 4 years and I never appreciated her. I was young and dumb. She left me and when she did I was miserable and wanted her back. But, I realized that I did not miss her, but missed the comfort of being in a relationship.

Answer 2

tell him that you see the errors of your ways and ask him for a fresh slate, starting over... seeing each other exclusivly but, starting very slowly. phone calls a couple dates a week, let him make the moves, things like that.... thats the only way he will know that you have changed... otherwise you 2 will end up seeing other people and even if in the long run u were really ment to be togeather you will always have those other relationships between you.. as in well you couldnt have loved me that much you were with this person or that person... try to start over in a very slow exclusive relationship

Answer 3

I don't blame him one bit for feeling like that. I think you should respect his feelings, be his friend, and if you have really made those changes that you claim to have made, he will see that in you as time goes on... You can't expect him to just take your word for it. And if he is really worth it, just know that time will show him how you have changed. You should just accept that and continue to work on those things within you that needed work so that you don't fall back into your old ways again. Good luck..