What does help you to be not a jealous person?

Question

Are you a jealous person or not? do you know any person who isn't jealous?

Answer 1

hi
Thank god for what you have and work for what you don't.
Lammy

Answer 2

I have never been a jealous person, which has often been interpreted as "ou don't love me" by people who are of a jealous nature. It's like people who have a tendency to be jealous can not even understand what not being a ealous person is, cuz if they did then they would not misinterpret.

I think perhaps self image plays a part. Also selfishness seems to be attached. I always just figure if one is not happy with me then they should go somewhere where they can be happy. What is the use in hanging with someone who would restrict you from enjoying life.

Not having ever been jealous I thus have a limited understanding of it. If I like someone and they do not like me that bothers me but them liking someone else I do not think is caused by that any more than me being who I am is the cause. Thinking you can change a person may also be involved and also in error for a person must change themselves.

Answer 3

You have probably been hurt before right? Maybe several times?

The core issue is a fear of abandonment to get right to the point. The way to heal the wounded heart is healthy communication. If you are with a person who you cannot communicate very well with you may want to seek couple's counseling. There may be legitimate reasons you feel so insecure with this one. There also may be issues from your past that are affecting your current relationship and you could be projecting your insecurities on a completely innocent person.

Do you guys communicate about EVERYTHING? Does your partner live a believable lifestyle? Do they stay open and accountable to you? Do you?

These are all legitimate questions you should ask yourself and be completely honest. If you know you need some help then seek a professional. You are worth it and your happiness in your relationships are worth it.

Good luck and God bless!

Answer 4

Jealous is a waste of time and a non-productive feeling. I love my man and he loves me. I trust him and he trusts me. If we ever lose that then our relationship would be a very unhappy one. I have found from past experiences that jealousy is usually in the mind of the person struggling with a low self esteem. However, there are some times when past experiences with a person have caused one party to become jealous and distrustful. If that happens and the injured party can't get past it then the healthiest thing for both parties is to end the relationship and move on.

Answer 5

I think it is healthy to be a bit jealous in a relationship. I think everyone, no matter how confident you are, still suffers from some self-doubts. I love my g/f and trust her completely, but if I see her interacting with a younger, better looking guy, I get a bit jealous. Not to the point of saying anything or trying to control the situation, but inside I get a bit jealous. I have also noticed that my girlfriend gets mad if I never show jealousy.

So, I think it is natural to be a bit jealous. If you want to stop then you have to have more confidence in yourself and you have to have faith in the one you love.

Answer 6

What helps me not to be a jealous person is being content with what I already have. I know that I am very different from other people with my skills, talents, intellegence and beauty. I learn to appreciate the things God gave me as his creation. God and Jesus loves me for me and not what I can offer them or how I can make them feel. That's uncondition love which you will seek in the world one in a millionth time in your life. Don't look at other people and realize that you want what other people think is cool to have because they may not be in your life for the rest of your life. Then you will be stuck with a car note and a cell phone bill and not only the bill--- the contract. So love yourself for who you are and forget those people who try to tell you that your below them.

Answer 7

Jealousy is a natural function of the brain. Do not fight it. It is just a feeling, nothing more. What makes us suffer over jealousy is that we run away from it instead accepting it. In order to control your jealousy you have to accept it completely before you can go through it and leave it behind. I am a jealous person and there is no human being who doesn't feel jealousy. The question is, what do you do with it, when it arises.

Answer 8

Jealousy is a natural thing, eliminating jealousy is like eliminating hunger or thirst. Every normal person feels jealous. Only the levels of jealousy differs from each and every person.

Answer 9

I am not a jealous person perse.What helps me to be this way is by facing reality:We cannot own anybody,whatever or whoever is meant for us is meant for us.We cannot force anyone.. And nothing is permanent in this world,anything can happen at anytime!Also don't compare or compete with others,rather just be grateful and content with what you have and make the most out of it!

Answer 10

I am not a jealous person. I do know people who aren't jealous people, and some who can be at times.
What helps me is being content and thankful with all that I have.

Answer 11

well i'll tell you what i do. if i felt that i'm being jealous i always think of death!! not in a bizarre way. But that everything that i would have and would like to have, will end, that simple. so it doesn't have a meaning. also i think that everyone have his good and bad points. So i think about the good things i have.and thank god for it