What do I say?

Question

Prior to me meeting my girlfriend, she had just gotten out of a long-term relationship(about a month earlier). I have known her for a year and we have been together as a couple for 10 months. It sounds like I am the rebound guy. We get along with each other very well. Our friends think we make a great couple. Lately she told me that she still is not over her past relationship and needs time. How much time is appropriate to get over someone that has been in a long term relationship?plus she told me that she feels I treat her more as a friend than a girlfriend. I have shown her in the past that I care very deeply about her. I am thinking of sitting her down one on one. And telling her how much she means to me. I am willing to wait for her to get over her past relationship, because I truly see a great future between us. I just have a hard time expressing myself. What would say tell her?

I am willing to give her time alone(space), but I feel I have to tell her how I feel about her because it is making it hard for me to concentrate on anything else. I feel that i am in love with her and need to know if she feels the same way. Or should I just not say anything to her and just give her space?

Answer 1

Rebound guy, maybe... but you have been together for 10 months. That should have been long enough to forget about the other guy.If she is still bringing up the ex, then maybe you ought to step back until she gets her head on straight.

Answer 2

Striaght up. It takes time to get over a serious one. You know? Give her space. It hurts to wait. But if it's that special. It'll all come your way. Don't try to make it work. If she's still got it for this guy. Or is scared. She sees you. And knows that you'll be there.

Answer 3

a look tell her you will give her the time she needs and that you respect that but also try to do more couple stuff you know kiss,hug,...

Answer 4

tell her whats in your heart