2007-01-06 22:14:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead. Slow and steady as it can go. As a guy who has dated gals on the rebound, she can really hurt herself and get confused. Expecting the new guy to be the same, for eg.
2007-01-06 22:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why jump from relationship to another so quick? Do you NEED to have someone around you that much? Take a break and spend some alone time, and think about what happened in the last relationship that went wrong and maybe it will not happen again. being alone for awhile can be very relaxing and you can clear your head and do some things that you want to do without someone looking over your shoulder. There is such a thing as chilling out. Give it a try and if the person you are "not over" is still in your mind if you get with someone else, it is going to effect the new relationship.
2007-01-06 22:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you enter into a new relationship, be honest to yourself and to your new guy.
If you still think you have feelings for your ex, try to sort them out first. You have to make sure you get it out of your system, so that you can be fair to yourself and your new man as you go on.
If you like the guy, you wanna be with him because you wanna be with him for who he is, not because you wanna get over someone else.
Make sure you are as honest with yourself and as comfortable as you can be, and you'll be happy when you know you did the right thing.
Good luck :)
2007-01-06 22:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by big h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are treading on danagerous ground. You should have gotten over the first guy before you moved on and I would suggest you do it fast. Because if you don't you will end up losing this new guy. Nobody wants to be someones second chose.
2007-01-06 22:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mix the two cause u may find u r self loosing them both or if u are over the first u must take u r time and if u are with another one u must give him the care he needs
2007-01-06 22:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by clueless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u give it time. don't hurry things ^. if u do u'll just hurt that 1 guy u kinda like & urself. after all time passes by fast, next thing u know u won't even remember u even liked this guy u kinda like right now. just have time 4-urself b-4 u let another guy enter ur life.
2007-01-06 22:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and talk to the new one, you sit around sulking you might miss the new one
2007-01-06 22:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by jokerswild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him in bed and find out
2007-01-06 22:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋