Should I even phone her again?

Question

Ok, here's the situation.

I'm 23, took a girl on date. Called her two days after date, got answering machine. It is now AGAIN 2 days later. I am wondering if she was maybe "with" a guy I work with, who was braggin he was gonna screw her that day I called her. Should I call her again, or just say "screw it" because she might already be with another guy. I mean, I left a message, didn't just hang up when the answering machine (voicemail - cellphone) came up.

SOOOOO basically what i'm trying to ask is, girls, should i phone her again?? I mean, i left a message. Wouldn't you return a call, or would you wait to see if the boy calls a SECOND time, just to make sure he's really interested.

Any thoughts would be appreciated. God, don't you hate the whole dating game?

Answer 1

Yeah I think you should call her again if you know the date went well. I wouldn't suggest calling her more than twice though and make the messages short you know " hey just calling to see if you want to go see that new movie (the newest one out there)give me a call back" Make sure to leave your number though cause I have lost numbers before and waited for a call back and I think they didn't call back cause they thought I wasn't feeling them anymore. Try again you have nothing to lose.

Answer 2

I think if she really liked you she would have returned the call. If you are having any doubts at all call her one last time - if you get the machine leave one last message and call it quits.

No offense but don't you think it a little odd that someone else is telling you that they are planning on screwing the girl you like? Was he joking or is he really trying to see her? If you know for sure she is seeing someone else it would just be desperate to continue trying to call her.

Answer 3

So you're basically trying to ask wheather you should call her yet another time in spite of a call and message given that it has been 4 days?
Yeah man, call her again. If you get VM, leave another message. After that, don't call again.

Answer 4

I wan't to say call her again, but don't. I think it will make you look desperate. She may have been too busy to check her voicemail recently and she'll get back to you in a couple of days...or she's out of town or something?
Anyway, if she doesn't call you back just move on. Don't make a fool of yourself. I make a rule to only call a person twice. If they don't call you back after the second call, then forget it. I'm done.

Answer 5

One more call sounds about right, if you get the VM then hit up the message and leave it be if you dont get a call back. Throw out the line and see what else bites.

Answer 6

Maybe you should call her again....
I mean she might need a clear signal from you showing that you are interested to her. Probably she unsure whether you really like her or not.
If she is interested to you, she would call you back, but if not, maybe you should leave her alone.
Anyway, the key is to show her that you really like her and try not to hesitate because that will allow her to doubt you.

Answer 7

i might say wait till Monday or Tuesday and make an off-the-cuff persist with up call. something like "howdy, I had a great time final week and can desire to make certain you returned". in case you do no longer pay attention from her after a 2d call then merely forget approximately approximately her. there is no longer something stalkerish approximately making a 2d call as long as you're no longer making a great deal approximately her no longer calling back the 1st time.

Answer 8

you should try one more time and if she doesn't respond after that then leave her alone :) :) :)