How come 4 some guys they think its ok to cheat but if their girlfriend does it they loose control?

Answer 1

Most guys don't think that way. If you've got one that does, he's probably cheating on you already.

Answer 2

Because men are arseholes!
It's a control thing - an ancient leftover of male dominance, as found in gorillas and other male-dominated animal groups.

Men have the nature to sow their seed with as many females as possible, in order to carry on their lineage - and at the same time protect "their territory" - the female. If the female wanders off to another male, the position the dominant male hold is threatened, and the dominant male is emasculated and humiliated.

I am not condoning this behavior - merely explaining why it exists.

In a committed relationship, there ought to be NO cheating!!!

Swinging - now there is a whole different issue. Now something is going on that is conscentual, and enhances the relationship, for people that can handle that.

Answer 3

Men cheat by nature,; so I am told. Men have the thought that this is what they were put here for. However, the thought of another man sleeping with their woman is beyond their scope of trust.

Women are suppose to be submissive and understand that this is what they do., They do not like to be questioned about their whereabouts, and who they have been with. It is unfortunate that the women of today to do not buy into the "don't ask, don't tell scenario." When a woman asks a man any questions they are very defensive about this issue.
However, they think it is OK to ask the female. I have established a don't ask, don't tell attitude.

I never let a man get that close to my outside business any longer. Women have the urge to tell the men to make them jealous, and it blows up in their faces. Why tell? Men do not tell.

Just understand this logic. If a man thinks that another man is enjoying his woman. He will "flip his lid."

They are like a dog they mark their territory, and no one should try to pi$$ on their lawns.

Play their game. It is funnier this way!

Answer 4

Because a guy can completely be in love with a girl and still mess up and cheat on her its just guys cant handle temptation. If a girl cheat on a guy it means She totally dont care about him and she not worth one more second of love from whom she cheated on

Answer 5

That is because there are some guys who think that guys can cheat and that is okay but girls can't and it is also goes for the name calling like hoe and prostitutes they don't have names for men that is just how life goes.

Answer 6

It's called a "double standard".

Don't worry. There are plenty of women that do the very same thing and think it's wrong if the guy cheats.

Goes both ways

Answer 7

hi there well this is the thing that if a guy has half a dozen different g/f on the go at once he is the man .....by all his mates .....where as when he gets busted he the sorriest man walking on this planet where as for females we do it we are called all different names not one of them nice ......if we see 2 different guys ......personaaly no one should cheat on each other take care xx

Answer 8

because they think they have control of the relationship and that you'd never cheat on them. no one should cheat. if you're partner cheated on you and you wanna be with someone else..then break up with your partner don't cheat on them. just because they cheated on you doesn't give you the right to do the same to them.

Answer 9

Because men are egoistic! It kills them by knowing the fact that women are capable of cheating too

Answer 10

I don't think all guys who cheat think it's okay, they know it's wrong, but they are too selfish to not do it.