we keep fighting about stupid stuff like we just broke up for a couple hours but we got back together a little later but im finding out that when we broke up she rushed to myspace and put that she was single she says she wasnt thinking and it didnt mean anything but i think its that she wants other guys to see that shes single am i thinking the wrong thing?
2007-01-06 20:51:42 · 20 answers · asked by john y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Back off!
The one chasing is NOT NECESSARILY the one with the power.
It sounds to me like she enjoys being pursued - and if you stop, she will at first ignore you, hoping you will start - but after a while, she will begin pursuing.
She will ley out little "traps" or snares for you to go for, and the more you DON'T, the more she will pursue.
I KNOW it is difficult to let go - I am a Scorpio, and by nature VERY controlling - but I have learned the hard way - that forcing myself to completely let go, and let her - is so much better and more fun.
If it does not happen the way I described, then she doesn't care for you, and you are better off with someone else.
Remember the saying:
If you love something, set it free - if it was meant to be, it will come back to you"
Or the other version:
If you love someone, set them free - if it was meant to be it will. If not, hunt them down and k!!! them...
2007-01-06 20:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first , sometimes we do things in the heat of the moment that we always seem to regret later. And putting that she is single out there in cyber space was probably just that, a heat of the moment error. Now I think that you are probably thinking the wrong thing. A couple of things I have learned over the years is that 1. Chase no one
2. If they want to be with you they will come back to you.
Keep it real with her and don't nit pick and hopefully you will get the same respect from her.
2007-01-06 21:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by yutrppn45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont mean disrespect but that really is some little kid shyt!!! i mean when i first hoked up with my boyfriend we was arguing over the most stupidest thing you can think of. i think it's like this phase that people go through. most likely she would grow up and become more mature about her ways and realize how she is acting. I'm still with mm boyfriend and we still agree and break up for like 2-3 hrs but we realize what we were arguing over nothing. As far as the myspace she's just trying to make you get jealous.
2007-01-06 21:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by green eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating? If she is that quick to change her myspace to single it makes me think that maybe she does want to be single. Something similar happened to one of my friends and she never rushed to myspace or facebook the same day to change her status from relationship to single. And yes she did get back with her boyfriend. Maybe you should tell her how you feel and move on. If she is that quick to change her status maybe she is not the one for you.
2007-01-06 20:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the exact same thing, she wanted to be viewed as single when she was really my girl. We broke up lots of times. It was a bad relationship that had to end. That's what you will have to do one day.
The first thing she did was try to hook up with some strange. That's what she will do every time you have a disagreement.
Thats why she is so disagreeable.
2007-01-06 21:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! She Shouldn't Have Done That! I Mean Come On? She Pretty Much Invited Guy's On In! That's Not Love!
2007-01-06 20:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1. You should not be fighting with her. 2. You should be glad other guys think she's good looking.
3. If she wants to be free let her go and find someone that wants to be with you.
Good Luck,
Bill
2007-01-06 21:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bill H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are psycho. But on the other hand you should be together. This is because no one in his or her right mind would come within 10 million miles of either one of you two.
2007-01-06 20:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting...may be that is how you communicate with each other...but there is a less stressfull way to communicate and that is dialog between you two with respect and understanding for each other. With this attitude you will go places....
good luck
2007-01-06 20:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wondering if she put married or divorced or separated would that be lieing? just curious. maybe she was trying to get ur attention in an immature way. ...wanting you to make up ur mind to quit fighting and work on the relationship. it probably was an impulsive move like she said..it meant nothing. just trying to shake u up? dunno...not in her head.
2007-01-06 21:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋