What's the deal with women testing men and making it so obvious? It's like a survey nearly, there's only small changes every time it's with a different person, and i can almost print you a hardcopy version of it. Seriously, it sometimes takes the fun out of dating. What makes you do this?
2007-01-06 20:47:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, i'm 19, it's not like i'm going to be thinking about marrying you after knowing you for a month. I just enjoy their company, but sometimes the tests really give me the shits
2007-01-06 20:56:08 · update #1
k ... I test guys but dont make it obvious ... . I do it to make sure... the guy likes me... cause.. I dont know.. I have a hard time being able to tell... cause Im not very observant... so... ya... plus I dont want to get hurt.. or.. used for sex or something.. so I constantly test guys... and especially for the truth
I had this feeling my ex...was lieing and doing something behind my back... he didnt call me for 3 days
he was apparently at a friends house meanwhile when he was at his friends house before.. he took the time to call me.... but now he didnt and he made up every excuse
so I tested him by.. being like.. honestly how do u feel about me.. and he kept avoiding the question and by then I knew the answer and since I knew he didnt feel the same or.. like me anymore I just broke it off... but I do it.. so that... I try to not get hurt so much. and to find out more information
and since some guys are immature and cant... just tell u straight up girls have to find out in other ways
2007-01-07 04:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto Cylon - lol. Women want to find a man, get married - it occupies our thoughts, a LOT. They want to know if you're husband material and they're not going to beat around the bush!
2007-01-07 04:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cedar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just they way we have evolved. It's natural. We have to make sure you are worth 9 months, labor , and then 18yrs of raising your rugrats.
2007-01-07 04:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Anthrope 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not to sure what your talking about, but maybe its because the girls you date want to make sure that your not just fooling them, that there is a relationship and that your not just using them, im not really to sure on this one but thought i'd have my imput anyways.
2007-01-07 04:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you think may be about you may not b about you ,Yahoo has a million people on it .
2007-01-07 04:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its romantic,mysterious and like u say fun
2007-01-07 06:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋