I am in love with my PT teacher. He is 23 yrs old and I am 16 yrs.
I love him very much and I also find him in the same. How can I know whether he loves me or not? He stares at me and tries to talk with me. He praises me at times and looks in a differently. I just don't undersatnd how to know whether he is in love with me or not. I am quite ashamed to share my thoughts with anyone. I am quite puzzled. Pls help, dear people.
2007-01-06 20:27:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pls dont say this as love. it may be infactuation. put the decision away for 2 or 3 years. if u have the same feeling even after 2 r 3 years then talk to him .
2007-01-06 20:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by avisar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please read this all the way through before moving on.
Do you live in America? If you do, then you should get over him and find someone who's at least seventeen. Then, it's not illegal. You have a crush. You're fond of him and the way he looks at you and compliments you. Is that love?? Do you know what love is? The fact of the matter is, he is your PE teacher and you, my dear, are his student. And if you TRULY feel that this feeling inside of you is love and not just lust for an older man than wait it out. Feelings change and if you still feel this way in a couple of months, yes months, then ... i don't know what you should do. I don't want to tell you to confront him because you might make him feel uncomfortable (being that he is your TEACHER). I'm not trying to be patronizing, this is my advice.
Good Luck.
2007-01-06 20:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to 2 of my friends in high school..They were actually dating teachers. Well, not really dating...they couldn't be seen in public or the teachers would have been fired. They were forbidden to tell anyone (well they did tell)...and word leaked out. Both teachers were fired. I heard that it was difficult for them to find a new job. The girl's parents didn't want to file against the teachers b/c they didn't want their daughters going thru the trauma. So the teachers got off without a sex offense.
The thing is...both of these girls are now married to someone else and become very embarrassed if the old subject of the teachers comes up. Save yourself the embarrassment later on. You will only cause the teacher trouble if he went for it, and the thing is he is probably only interested in you as a student not as a love interest.
Go out with someone in your peer group.
2007-01-06 20:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by brensbren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far so good gal,
Can't u learn to apreciate his simple gestures
He is 23 you are 16, He is all right in doing whdever u describe
You are all wrong when u wanna return him 'you',
Just luv it the way it is, dont read more in between.
He has to teach more and more of teens like you,
If he gets into business u wanna drag him into.
Poor chap will do PT in his apartment thro life,
And will never able be return in any school.
You wanna train physically ur PT teacher,
It's not you but the fool inside you.
Simply enjoy the way it is
Will it not be more cool..........
2007-01-06 22:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by poke_a_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1--If you "love" him, leave him alone because he can lose his job and destroy any possiblity of a future in teaching if there is any indication of a relationship between the two of you.
#2--You probably don't love him. It's probably just a crush, which is totally normal and nothing to be "ashamed" of. He might even have a crush on you, but it is just not realistic to hope for anything to develop from it.
Maybe you should change classes and take PT with a different teacher. Out of sight, out of mind, right?
2007-01-06 20:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Uebermaedchen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him to be charged with indecent assault?.Wait till you are of age and see if you still feel the same. There is so much pain and suffering because of separation and divorce. Marriage-relationships should not be taken lightly. Give your self plenty of time to get a mate.Enjoy your youth, do things like traveling with your friends, you will be old soon enough...to find your perfect mate...
Good luck
2007-01-06 20:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear... please check out whether he is a good one or not. dnt lose ur precious love just like that. at ur age, everyone crossed such love.. this is mere attraction. everyone crossed such situation.. at 16, everyone gets their dream of a boy or a girl. but make sure whether urs is true love or mere attraction. 16 is nt a right age to decide a love affair. still u love him, first know about him and his family. if he too loves u, he cant hide it too long. wait for some more days for his move. dnt decide just like that. all the best.
2007-01-06 20:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not in love with you.
It is common for teens to direct their emotions toward their teachers. It is dangerous for both of you - he could lose his job if anything were to come out of this situation.
Find a guy your own age - at your age, 7 years is a HUGE amount of difference in levels of maturity and experience - nearly 1/3 of a lifetime!
Move on.
2007-01-06 20:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To you, You are 16.
To your parents, You are 16.
To your friends, You are 16.
To your 23 year old PT teacher, You are 16 to life!
step away from the scandal!
2007-01-06 20:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by TVSPBT 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking too much into this. This happened to me too talking to a 20+ person I started to adore him and I thought I was in love too. But it's just adoration. Look onward! He'll only see you as student/friend.
2007-01-06 20:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Fia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋