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that a 13 year old can do.

2007-01-06 20:14:56 · 25 answers · asked by shadow of a girl 2 in Health Mental Health

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I can't believe you really expect and answer. Sounds like you need to talk to someone....right away.....and get some help.

2007-01-06 20:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

You see, that's the kicker....they are ALL easy. Therein also lies the answer.
The easiest road isn't the best road in this situation.
Distract yourself from the thoughts by doing something physical or play a game. Head to addictinggames.com...I get lost there when I'm feeling mentally puny sometimes.
Sounds like therapy might help, too. I don't want to hear "I have been and it NEVER works...". It means you haven't found the right doc/med combo yet. Be patient, and give it time, you'll fins something (meds or no) that will work for you.
Take care.

2007-01-07 04:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 2 0

Remember feelings change and even though you feel awful right now it will change if you give yourself and life a chance. People do love you and do care. You need to talk to someone that can help you and let them help you! tell all the negative thoughts in your brain to shut up because they are not true. People need you. I almost died by suicide 13 years ago and once you do it you are in gods hands and I remember fighting for my life and not wanting to die after I had started it. It is the scariest and most powerless feeling I have ever had. I am alive now and shouldn't be. You need to be able to live your life find happiness, date get married have kids just experience the good parts of life because there are good parts to look forward to. you are ok as you are today just be you and love you..

2007-01-07 04:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by graecat 2 · 0 0

Thirteen is a very young age. By the time I was thirteen I was in a right state but here I am at 25, married, 2 beautiful children and studying psych at Uni with a promising career in front of me. Things do change. While you may feel that at the moment thinks are very bad they most certainly will get better, i swear this to you. There are many organisations that can help you if you are finding things really hard. Suicide is never the answer. It is much better to hang in their and wait for the really good things in life, they will come xx

2007-01-07 04:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

You are telling us something here about your life. At your age I wonder if you have received the insult unto death. You still have some hope left and you believe you are doing the best you know how to do.
Before depression sets in and then later a psychosis that will allow the brain to chose illogically you need to study life out more. Your expectations for sex and love can bring you happiness or bring you to suicide . Try to eliminate the wrong expectations before it is too late.

2007-01-07 05:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hey love, i know life may seem hard right now but im sure it will imporve.

If you need to talk to someone plaese contact ..

Kids Help line 1800 55 1800 You can talk to counseler for free, and the number doesnt show up on your bill aslong as you dont use telstra mobile

Lifeline 131114 - Costs the same as normal phone call agian number doesnt show on ur bill

crisis care 13 1611 - free call

If in serious need, if you are seriously thinking of hurting yourself contact 000 or 911

Youth Health Line 1300 13 17 19 Local call cost. or from a mobile 83031691 normal call costs apply.

Please ring Kids Help line if you are in australia. They are agreat help. And want contact you parents. and good thing is you can talk the same counseler evy time you call.

Life can refer you to a counser in your state etc.

IF in serious danger to yourself ring 000

Email me let me know what you chose to do or add me to your msn. angorabunnies@msn.com

2007-01-07 04:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by bladetroubles 2 · 0 0

Why do you think you need to kill yourself? If something happend, it will go away in a short time. I'm 14, and I have asked myself that question at times, but I talked to my friends and they helped me out.
Just think about this. Think of all the people you would hurt if you were gone. Your parents and friends would miss you. If you really think you want to hurt yourself, I highly suggest you go see a counselor, or talk to a close friend. They can help you.

You still have your WHOLE life ahead of you, life is only so short, you should enjoy it.

If you ever need someone to talk to email me. I will reply. Promise.If I can get it.

Hope everything goes well, and good luck

2007-01-07 05:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1 0

The simple fact that you're on here asking, is proof that you don't want to die...you just want to stop hurting. I'm 26, and I've been suicidal (and homicidal, and every other "cidal" you can think of). The fact of the matter is this: Suicide is a very permanent solution to a temporary problem. Why let the next few moments of your life determine the next 70+ years of your life? It hurts now, but know that feelings are transient-----they come and they go, and we just got to go with the flow. If you need to vent, email me: Genea_80@yahoo.com. I know how you feel, and I promise it gets better.

2007-01-07 12:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Genea_80 3 · 0 0

How the **** could you wanna die? I have gone insane with the thought of dying...

Live ISNT forever. You could just not exist after life. A crappy unhappy existance would be even better than not existing. Death might be like before birth, NO TIME, you'll be NOTHING. Then There's heaven and hell, heaven you might get sick of overtime, i mean foreverness of anything would get very boring. Hell your forever tortured, I don't think you realize how bad that would be, foreverness of pain that would never go away. Pain forever would be the worst thing imaginable, you'd wish for not existing, you'd wish for heaven.

Life is not forever, you are going to waste a existance that could have been great. You have NO right to be suicidal, no matter what. If you kill yourself that's your own fault, not mine. I will hope you won't kill yourself, it's really a waste and just not right. Contact me, please if you can, aim/yim - xxdisturbedsavio

2007-01-07 04:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Speak to someone, a parent, a guardian or another person you trust. Ask to talk to someone at school, maybe the nurse. Or even phone an organisation that helps younger people deal with their problems.

Right now you might think they'll be no end to your problems but they will end. Open up to someone and they will help you. There are people close to you that will want to help you.

2007-01-07 13:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Pat 3 · 0 0

the easiest way is to continue living:)
its then an everyday battle against depression.
what school are you from? go to the school counsellour..
pls dont throw away ur life. your friends and family.. do u know how much it'll affect them..
i wish i could help.
if u need to talk just email me:)
i'm 14 going on 15 btw..
sec sch is a big jump from pri sch..its not easy..

2007-01-07 06:22:55 · answer #11 · answered by poptoooty 1 · 0 0

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