I had this male friend and we would hang out together sometimes, we would usually watch a movie or just go out to get something to eat. Then one night he kissed me and we kissed for a while, that was all that happened. Ever since then he hasn't talked to me. I have asked him why and he just says that he is busy. He also acted like I was the one that did something wrong, but he was the one that kissed me first. Why is he acting this way?
2007-01-06 20:13:40 · 6 answers · asked by Goldielocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Question to you: How long were you two friends for?
Well most guys just sometimes don't know how to react to certain events or situations that occur in their lives. He's either scared, or just plain immature, and I HATE it when it comes down to that. If you called him a day after this kiss, then that's not really the best idea to have done. You should always give guys time, to basically process the moment and the day and what happen in the day. Not saying that men are stupid but you boys sometimes just act like boys! If you didn't call him right away after the kiss, then maybe he's done this before and doesn't really know how to react, or he's being shady. One day just go over his house and sit him down and tell him, "We need to talk.." because sometimes boys wont listen unless they're sat down and told to listen. Then talk it out and tell him to tell you the complete honest truth on why he doesn't talk to you ect ect ect.
Good Luck!
2007-01-06 20:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by natali3x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is scared.. He does not want to mess up a good friendship.. He is some what embarrassed about the incident. Especially if he initiated the sequence of events that took place. Give him a little time. He should come around.
2007-01-06 20:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just a little overwhelmed with the whole situation. Give him a little time and space and see what happens. If he hasn't talked to you by them, approach him and make him talk to you.
2007-01-06 20:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you but he's afraid that carrying on might ruin the good friendship you guys share..during the time when he didn't talk to you,he might be thinking about you..he's trying to sort out his thoughts..give him some time and if he still hasn't gotten back to him..go talk to him..if you like him and wants something more than just platonic relationship,let him know..
good luck dearie =)
2007-01-06 20:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time to think about what you did.
maybe he is shocked by the thing you did.
try to contact him first and tell him if ever he answers that it was okay for you that kissing thing.
maybe he is embarassed by what you did.
overall... that was immature
2007-01-06 20:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is immature
2007-01-06 20:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋