I feel like a ghost...I feel like I was battered out of my body and now I kind of haunt my flesh. I feel like covering it with tattoos and piercings... maybe trying self abuse.... since the pleasure seems to get me deeper in trouble. Any advice ? Somebody help me with something that invades my soul and gives me some freedom plz.
2007-01-06 20:01:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do you realize once you begin doing every thing you are talking about doing to yourself you are actually believing what your rapist has told you, whether or not he spoke it verbally. Let me put it to you this way I have been gang banged, raped three to four times and the last time my own sister set me up.
She told me to watch for this guy who was after me and from the onset I made up my mind to stay away from him. A week later we had gone to this house; my first time there. He walked in the door and when everyone left I thought he had gone too and you know something I learnt later on that when we had gone to that house that my sister actually knew he lived there.
The one secret I learned is they want you to feel as bad as they do. They want you to blame yourself and in that way they put their guilt on you. In all truth and honesty you do not have to blame yourself; I chose not to blame myself; I accepted it happened to me and from there I decided which road I wanted to travel on. I chose the road to good and positive thinking and a pure attitude. Some people need counseling to achieve this I just seemed to be gifted with it.
I hope that you can find a way to reach these same goals, cause you will feel so much better. You deserve to feel better.
I would like to mention that a lot of women and I don't know if you are one of them have family members to go to; I never did - my mum is of the thinking (ever she knew) that I let the men rape me. You never let anyone rape you because then it is not called rape.
Most important of all you have to believe that you deserve you feel better.
2007-01-06 21:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the holy Ghost must have raped virgin Mary. This is the only way Mary could have ever conceived a boy, since females have a Y-Y configuration in their sex-chromosomes and only can pass a Y-chromosome to their offspring. Males have X-Y configuration in their sex-chromosomes, so where did Jesus X-chomosome come from? Well it obviously came from the holy ghost when it raped virgin Mary, that s the only scientifically feasible explanation. So yes, the holy ghost is God incarnated as some sort of super rapist with the ability to rape women without them even knowing.
2016-05-23 02:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive those who wrong you, say it "I forgive ALL Those people who ever did wrong to me" say it over and over until you feel it and those feelings leave. I was physically abused a kid, and lived a ruff childhood, as well as being a drug dealer which led to drug abuse and other things all before i turned 18. I left that world, forgive everyone that wronged me, and sought forgiveness from God. Now I live as a good Muslim.
Peace Be With You
2007-01-06 20:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a journal, it will be painful, but you will be able to resolve your problems, writing is a powerful thing. The best help will come from yourself, from within. Also talking in the mirror works great, you will be surpirised that you will be shy towards yoursel and you will also relaized how "real you actually are."
I used to feel unitimate with my surrounding also, its because your mind has chose to ignore th inner pain, journal writing (writing about anything helps equally) and Mirror talking will make you feel who you are again
2007-01-06 20:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Muse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know that one day you will be out of hell and out of that body. You have a new body, I saw mines many times during meditation.
2007-01-06 20:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by spir_i_tual 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are describing is a disassociative disorder. I strongly urge you to see counseling, preferably NOT with a religious institution that will try to read something religious into the fact that you were raped. Please go - you have the right to live and be happy.
2007-01-06 20:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't mean to add insult to injury, but if what you say is true, why are you on here looking for answers?
These people, for the most part, don't give a s**t about you or your feelings. Don't turn to them for advice.
If you're making this up to get attention, you're sick and in need of some serious psyche help.
2007-01-06 20:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by sheryl l 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I feel for you. But I will never understand you suffering. You need to find yourself a counsellor or therapist. She will be able to help you more than anyone can here. What about the rapist? Have you reported him? Please, do. Rapists must NEVER get away with it.
2007-01-06 20:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go and see a counsellor and be brave and report it to the police. Rapist shouldnt be left wandering around outside...
2007-01-06 20:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seeking help from religions gonna make ur condition worst...go see doctor...
2007-01-06 20:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋