What would you do when someone you dislike (a kind of disliking that you don't know the reason) tells you that "I love you and want to be with you 'till death and beyond"?
I'm panicking right now..... What should I do!
2007-01-06 19:30:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell them that you are flattered, but you don't like them that way. Simple and honest, its the best way, otherwise they will always hope.
2007-01-06 19:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The easiest thing is to do nothing - but that will inevitabley cause problems in the longer term - you have to be honest, but take time to think about what you are going to say - you need to be compassionate, but to make sure you get the message across - not easy!!
2007-01-07 05:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by lynnej1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got the "sniff" its a gift sort of like the shining. to dislike somebody for no reason is a gift. its a pre-emptive warning that this person is no good. what you do is tell them to get lost!
2007-01-07 05:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you are just not ready for a long term relationship right now until you are sure that you can support a family of twelve children plus your mother and granmother and any other family that might want to move in with you.
2007-01-07 03:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Boscombe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you must tell them that you do not feel the same way (Don't actually say that you dislike them)
But do it courteosly.
It would be unkind to give them false hope.
2007-01-07 04:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably better to tell them the truth, it might hurt their feelings now but if you string them along and then tell them later it will just make it worse.
2007-01-07 03:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Phil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u hate that person.. u does not need to be panic.. maybe he/she really get ur attention by making u dislike him/her..
just relax.. tell him u need time to consider..
2007-01-07 03:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest even if it hurts them in the long run it will be better for the both of you and at least you wont have lied
2007-01-07 10:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by boredstupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you dating someone you don't like
or is this coming out of nowhere?
honestly you need to tell her how you feel, but don't kill her in the the doing so
2007-01-07 03:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by mintman16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, you get more self respect. Dont feel like you have to say what one wants to hear
2007-01-07 05:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by kelly a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋