If u have read my questions same guy...
i like this boy but we r close friends an he will never like me cause he likes this other girl who i'm trying to hlp him get 2 gether with her on V-day as a group date with my friends but... i think i love him
he is my basicly best friend before crush an so that is why i'm helping him with this girl. the both like each other an she is a close friend 2.
man o man i went with 3 people 2 dinner 2night (including him) an this other girl (who had dated him; there was another guy also) still liked him an was flirting with him. then she left an it was me an the 2 guys. i really like him an i had already told the other guy, and he was basicly hinting my crush that i liked him. then he was going to talk 2 my crush privatley but 1st he turned around an i liped i didn't like him (which is not true). so then the guy said never mind.
i still feel like i'm crying!
2007-01-06 19:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by Pie iz GOOD!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him, you'll never know if he feels the same. he may, he may not. it's always worth the try. otherwise you may never know. if you think you may actually be in love with him then it is definetely worth the attempt. do it, for the sake of us all.
2007-01-06 19:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by vast v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stating this as a woman who dated many boys before meeting my husband: You are being slightly immature. The whole he likes another girl and I'm crying and all of this getting another guy to talk to him...That's all pettiness. I was 13 when I met my husband and it was at a church camp. I don't know if you believe in God or are religious or anything but if you are this will be of help. God planned since the beginning of your lifetime and before who you were going to be married to and love. This guy that you are friends with just might be the one I don't know and only God knows. But I know that when I first caught sight of my husband, it was at church, and I immediately thought he was gorgeous and genuine. If you are just crushing on this guy because of looks or he is cool then you defiantely most likely do not love him. Don't waste your life trying to find happiness in boys or drinking or drugs... (which I hope you don't do) If he is right for you he will come to you. Just make sure that if he does and after he does you make the right decisions. Remember that if you are searching for happiness it is in Christ that you will find it. I learned that around your age. Just make sure that you aren't desperate and that you wait for the guy that God made for you. I am not saying that you should not alk to guys because you can still be friends with them and still even be best friends with that guy. But just be careful. Try listening to the song Average Girl by BarlowGirl. I think it will explain what I am talking about.
2007-01-06 19:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by ilovejunior7789 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
holy crap. your life is like a soap opera. and nothing good ever comes out of dodging situations. and oh my god, if you like this guy why on earth are u helping him get another date, i swear i saw that movie. you have two choices. 1. tell him that your feel all tingly inside when your with him and you'd like to be more than just friends. he either say no, or hey i was waiting for you to ask. if he says no at least you can start to move onto another sexy boy (and there are lots of them out there if you can just distract yourself for second from this guy). or 2. move on. find another boy to distract yourself with, even if your not that into him, just a rebound boy to help you remember that other guys can make you tingly too. this choice also has the added benefit of possibly inciting jealousy in your boy friend which could draw his interests toward you (you know something about that, right?)
hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-06 19:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by jezabella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you kno this guy likes this other girl you should probably let that take its course before trying your luck with him. However, There is nothing wrong with dropping hints. Its a tough call. good luck
2007-01-06 19:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by tomuchthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way life is. You always want what you can't have. The real bummer is that even when you get what you want it is never the way you imagined it. Oh, and always remember that things will always change.
2007-01-06 19:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O well you could just talk to him.You say he is your best friend right?So talk to him.
But i would think if you loved him then you would know and not think you did.
Try taking a break from seeing him and sort out your feelings.Why risk a friendship for ..I think...
2007-01-06 19:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch your friends, then tell your crush you're spending Valentines with him instead. He'll definitely get the idea ;-)
2007-01-06 19:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hold the phone honey
sometimes you've got to bite the bullet and tell him
maybe he'll be your Valentine
2007-01-06 19:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by mintman16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋