im happy that i can count my partners on one hand, well one finger, i love my boyfriend, but why do people think i need to experiment and all that stuff? i tell them im happy and that i could never sleep with someone im not in love with, they just roll their eyes and tell me to go out and experiment?? why do humans think that one person is just not good enough? im not wrong am i?
2007-01-06 19:22:08 · 17 answers · asked by bacardi b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They think you need more experience because they want to give you that experience. There is nothing wrong with being with one person. In some ways it is better because yall can grow sexually at the same pace. Trust me, it bites getting someone who isn't able to keep up with you. So don't worry about what others say, if you are happy with one then be with that one.
2007-01-06 19:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!! First off, don't ****** listen to NO ONE!! It's YOUR life and YOUR body!! Some people, when they do get intimate, it has to be meaningful and they have to be in a committed relationship, some people simple have sex to please themselves, with no strings attached. And some just have sex but are too afraid to get to know that person, cause there scared of intimacy, the list goes on and on, but my point is, what do YOU want? This is your life, hey...there is plenty of time for you to be with someone new if this relationship doesnt work out, trust me, don't rush anything, enjoy what you have now, and make the best out of it. Why do you think there soooo many women that are pregnant, and having babies, and don't even know who the father is??!! Because there having sex with everyone!! There's STD's to worry about too! Girl..you have a life time, Don't rush into it. Enjoy what you have now, because if your happy thats all that matters, does your friends have a lover they can call there own next to them? Probley not..they have not found him or her..but when they do..hopefully...they'll settle down.
2007-01-06 19:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong in what you believe and I'm proud that you embrace your womanhood and don't flaunt it out to all kinds of guys. Sex is something that should be shared with that special someone. Who's to say you can't experiment in the relationship your in and be just as happy. Thats what me and my boyfriend do and we couldn't be happier. Just experiment with one another and you'll get the same if not better than just experimenting with other people. Plus its a lot safer and your sharing it with someone you truly care about. Congrats to you for that!
2007-01-06 19:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u are not wrong. Its so refreshing to hear a young lady talk about love and commitment these days with all the disposable relationships that r around today.They r just jealous of yours and probably give everything to have something as meaningful as u have found.
2007-01-06 19:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by jafsil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need more experience. Don't worry about it, if you are happy and you know it clap your hands. If you love your boyfriend how much more do you need. Sounds like life is good. Be happy and screw what others think.
2007-01-06 19:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Pyth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been with more ppl then you, and Ive only loved two. My ex and my fiance. The sex is different with both, and all the others. If you do want to experiment news things, disucss them with ur boyfriend and see what he says...its always a good thing to spicen up the sex life ;)
2007-01-06 19:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by xo_mzbeck_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's not bad to "date" several guys at once, but I wouldn't be sleeping with any of them under those circumstances, just getting to know them some and allowing them to get to know me.
I don't think it's neccessary to go out and sleep around to get experience. I think if one finds his/her true love, they will come to having a mutually satisying sex life with time, no matter what.
2007-01-06 19:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to experiment then do it with the one you love and are committed to.And tell these people to go do what they want and to leave you to your business.
Sounds like to me they are a wee bit jealous.
Just tell them you found the one that does it right the first time .lol
2007-01-06 19:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you arent wrong, I am the same way, one love, one partner... i deal with the same stuff with my friends and I think they just are mad I make them feel bad for whoreing themselves around in all honesty... lol no but really, everyone is different and if one works for you, good! you are healthier and better off that way!
2007-01-06 19:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Genius at these things! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself have only had one partner. even though we r not togeather now dosent mean i want to sleep with anyone else. maybe people are saying that to make themself seem less slutty. no it is not wong
2007-01-06 19:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by tooshort1708 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋