we know each other since i was 14 im 21 now she is 20 we started going out after being friends for the longest time but we spoke off and on but there was always a spark there between us so i turned 21 december 28th and we hung out the next day the 29th and we been inseperable since texting talking every night texting etc i just really love her and feel like she is the one for me just because how long we known each other and it just felt right now earlier today january 6th she checked my myspace which i have one she doesnt and she started over reacting about people on my page comments who i knew etc i got rid of those comments and changed my page around just for her and now she seems to be diffrent today i thought id give her sometime to cool off and she seems diffrent now even tho she starting to kool off and says everything is fine we just been texting tho and this is the first night we didnt speak on the phone i love her and dont wanna lose her id feel empty without her any advice???
2007-01-06 19:19:51 · 6 answers · asked by tbond1728 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well now the issue is resolved i decided to get rid of the page and things are smooth again i put myself in her shoes and thought damn people hitting me up and telling me this and that it creates jealousy and just overall problems add to that she doesnt even have a page so its only fair now i just was thinking that i really love her alot and i never been a lovey dovey guy anyways but she makes me feel diffrent im really planning for the future does anyone think me compromising hurts me in the fact that i gave in or does it show sacrfice and that i really care cause i asked her stright up tell me to get rid of the page and its gone she said yes and i got rid of it without thinking i really wanna be with her for now and for the future so do you think that doing this really helps me in the long run let me know what you think
2007-01-07 13:07:25 · update #1
I think if she has a problem with your myspace...then she should tell you how she feels about it....you even changed it for her...men dont do those kind of things these days.. that shows you care about her and would take time to change something in order to make it work out better...she should be happy..try to talk to her and tell her how you feel...and if she dosent come around..i dont know what to say..forgetting about her and moving on would be tuff...and trying to talk about the situation would be another thing..this also can mean that she probably doesn't like your frineds...is that a good thing? i think you should try talking to her...but if shes the same and acts weird for the stupidest thing...i think the decision should be left to you...good luck and hope the best for you
2007-01-06 19:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mololina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ksetrada!!!
I think that now that you got rid of your page, you have a bigger problem!!! NOT to scare you, but I feel that if you do not put some kind of boundaries here in this situation, you can end up being very much hurt on the long run!!!
First of all, I understand that you love her, and know her for the longest, but you have to start making her respect your life as it is!!!
You see??? I have a problem ,with you getting rid of your pages, because you wanted to make her happy, but what about you!!! If this continues eventually she will be in advantage all the time!!!
You should keep your pages exactly as they were, because, having your pages, you were the one pursuing her into a relationship!!! And if she ask you to get rid of your friends, or not to visit some relatives, or not to go to your favorite places???
You see, if you don't get a grip, on this as to let her know that she has to respect your way of life, as you need to respect hers; you are definitely setting yourself for some NOT too happy relationship.
Because you will always be unhappy getting rid of this and that, spoiling her on that aspect, will NOT make her respect you or love you any better!!!!
GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
ALLIV Z
2007-01-15 01:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry to much about it. I'm sure everything will be cool. I went through the same situation just before Thanksgiving! My girlfriend got upset with me for the same reason. After we changed my page together and added pictures of us, she said everything was cool but she was still some what quiet. I finally asked her again if we were okay? Because she seemed a bit different. She told me she was embarrassed about the way she had reacted. I let her know I understood because I would have been upset too. I apologized for being inconsiderate and everything's been good. Just reassure your girlfriend your sorry and let her know how much you care and don't want this situation to ruin anything. Good luck to you, hope I helped.
2007-01-07 03:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Christ Believer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The initial flame is dying. You've known each other a long time. Let the relationship fall where it will. This is touchy territory. If she really wants to give it a shot, she'll make certain you know in a reasonable amount of time. You did nothing wrong though, so know that she is overreacting and decide whether you want this kind of drama in your life because this is just the beginning.
2007-01-07 03:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of My Space.
Get in to your real life.
My Space can really mess some people's life up. Get out of it whether she is in your life or not.
2007-01-07 03:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
myspace ruins relationships, i know from expierence on a 5 year relationship. Delete it if she means that much to you
2007-01-07 03:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by ifrit1710 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋