Well i have know this girl for about a year and have been going out with her since august 06. but the thing is...i only know her online. and another thing to is that i really love her. i know some of you might think its dumb or something but i do love her. well anyways i live in texas and she lives in indiana. yeah thats a pretty far distance.i am willing to do anything to make this work between us. im 17 and a junior in high school. and well she has dropped out and she is 15 and 16 in april. yeah i know that it can make things harder but im ok with it. her parents know about this and so do mine and they are ok with it. im planning to move over there when i graduate. when she turns 18 we are moving back over here. her parents are fine with this. i am really close to her family and i actually call her mom and dad, mom and dad lol. well my dad has my life planned out for me though. hes ok with this relationship but he wont let me move. hes making me go to college. thanks for the advice
2007-01-06 19:14:48 · 6 answers · asked by some guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should be changing the direction of your life right now because of this girl, and yes, a lot has to do with your ages. But more importantly, If your father is willing to provide a home and an education for you now, it will probably be the last time you will ever have such an opportunity. You will also have the opportunity to earn some money that your life doesn't depend on, lol. The other stuff will work itself out as it will. Remember, you don't need anyone who does not have YOUR best interests at heart, so if your girl is mature enough, she will not want to hold you back and she'll stick with you and wait for you.to finish up your formal education.
If you need more to convince yourself, look into budgets. Make one that you think is realistic. If your parents are willing, perhaps they will let you see their actual income and expenses. And look into average earning power., and the cost of college and the cost of raising a child. I know, who wants to hear that stuff, but having holes in your shoes and living off one canned ham for a month isn't any fun.
2007-01-06 19:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father cant force you to go to college somewhere you dont wanna go but at the same time its a while before you grad and u never know what might happen between now and then so dont fight with him or anythin cause u could regret it
2007-01-07 03:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must really wana b with her for a while....until shes 18. whoa thats a long time. if your life is all planned out, what happened to hers? i know you r being with her out of love but dont let her live off of you when u get your life together.
2007-01-07 03:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by p-jump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a school to go to close to her if you want to try and make it work.
2007-01-07 03:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by bendabomb85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well very interesting love story.ALL THE BEST^_^
2007-01-07 03:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
............... talk to him abot it
2007-01-14 22:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lovechan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋