i was in love with a jewish girl. (i'm christan) we come from a well off area, and she was really wealthy, in a sense. She lived in a big house and i lievd across town in an area that wasn't as fortunate. i attended a community college for a few years and she had bigger plans, and planned on going to a great school. she was very intelligent and had a bright future. and i just didn't feel up to par with her, because in all honesty, i wasn't. she liked me, but stayed withsomeone else. he was attending a great school and was rich as ****. she told me she liked me more but something kept her going back to him. do you think this had anything to do with it? was i really nhot good enough for her?
2007-01-06 19:11:15 · 8 answers · asked by vast v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you are good enough for her!! She may have very shallow values because she is young and is not experienced enough to see your true worth. She may be responding to parental pressures and expectations. I am so sorry you have been hurt by this. There are many fine girls out there who will respect you for who you are. Remember: there have been MANY successful people who did not start out with great wealth and who went to community colleges. Respect yourself and your strengths!
2007-01-06 19:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you going to a community college has anything to do with her going back to the other guy. I mean, community college can offer great degree's!! Also, you are doing something that is brightening your future!! You're going to school, and you're making something of yourself. Alot of the most successful people came from "lower and middle class" family's. Money doesn't buy happiness 4 ever, and if you say she is "educated" then I'm sure she knows this. Plus, if she's already rich, she doesn't need a rich guy because she can buy whatever she wants already!! :) MAYBE the religion has something to do with it. Do you know if the guy is JEWISH or not? I mean, Jewish parents "always" want their children to marry a jewish. (don't they?) I'm sure she really does like you. You should investigate this situtaion with religion. I mean, I'm a preachers daughter and also my father teaches college at a christian University, so he wants me to h00k up w/ a church of christ man. Lol. Anyway, good luck, and when you find out what happens put an update on here...or you can email me at j_melea@yahoo.com
P.S....My x boyfriend went to a community college and I am going to school at Auburn University. And we both come from well off familys ..he dumped me for a girl in highschool, and her parents are crack heads. Money isn't it dogg.
2007-01-06 19:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not in love with you or she would be with you. She makes her own decisions. It's not that you aren't good enough. You're just two different people with two different sets of criteria for a good relationship. It does seem, based on what you state, that perhaps money is a factor in her choice, which is kind of shallow if you ask me, but it's better for you to know now. Take some time to reflect and figure out what you want in a relationship and what you absolutely don't want. Do you really want a girl that is interested more in money than love? Not saying this is good or bad, but figure out if this is good or bad for you. Only you can decide what is.
2007-01-06 19:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family has a ton of money yet I tended to be attracted to girls less fortunate than me. It can happen. You could be right, or you could have become paranoid and self concious about your own perceived shortcomings.
2007-01-06 19:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you were good enough for her but she liked the other guy also
and felt more socially compatible with him...
2007-01-06 19:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she just liked this guy more but told you otherwise to make you feel good. move on
2007-01-06 19:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviosly this other guy was giving her a connection you had not yet breached
i trully don't think she was with him for his money, but she could have been
how serious was she with this other guy?
2007-01-06 19:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by mintman16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH hUH!!!Money goes to money dude, she aint worth it.
2007-01-06 19:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by yahwhoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋