i have a bad habit of always worrying about my bf. what hes doing, is he where he says he is, is he lusting for other women, is he lying again. even if i keep myself busy i still find myself thinking again. he has done ugly things to me in the past and it still haunts me. how do i not let these things consume me. it is affecting my life badly. some days i am ok and some days i can hardly make it. when he says ill be back in a while ill get a bad feeling inside, like a pit in my stomach. how do i change this. im really hurting inside. i want that bad feeling to go away. plz someone help me!!!!!
2007-01-06 19:05:10 · 3 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you noticed this man is not making you happy? And worse, is making you miserable. How to change it? You can't "change" him or it would have happened already. All you can change is yourself. And that means getting him out of your life. The only alternative is to live like that , well, forever. I am sorry because I know this is not the answer you are looking for. But, one way or another, you deserve much better than what you have now.
2007-01-06 19:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very, very best thing you can do is think of something you believe you can never get --- like a college education, or a house, or a business of your own, or a really challenging career --- and then put every ounce of your energy into getting it.
You'll find new people on your journey who will show you what life is like when you love yourself.
Don't worry about losing this guy. Now get busy!
2007-01-06 19:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason that you do not trust him, if he has cheated on you in the past, then you need to learn to forgive if you still want to be with him, if not, move on.
2007-01-06 19:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋