I'm known around school for being "The Heart Breaker" and I barely say yes to any boys in our school because they areall mean and....ugly. Well, I had a boyfriend and we were basically in love. Then we broke up for a very stupid reason. I told him I still had feelings for him but that only made his head bigger because he told all of his friends that I was sprung. I'm pretty sure he still likes me but I'm not exactly sure. His friend keeps telling me that he doesn't but I think he's just saying because he's jealous. My ex is probably saying that he doesn't like me because he's trying look good in front of his friends. I REALLY love him but I'm afraid what he'll say if I tell him again. I already told him once and the other night it seemed like he was really into me. I don't know what to do or what he'll say. I REALLY REALLY hope he says he still loves me and has feelings for me but I don't know how to tell him. Does anybody have any ideas? I'm despret and I need so serious help. Please?
2007-01-06 18:51:55 · 17 answers · asked by [♥] ME [♥] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore him. Let him come to you or not. He has the upper hand because he knows how you feel. Let him wonder. Don't be mean. Just be aloof. Good Luck.
2007-01-06 18:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax. Understand that you can't force him back into your life. He knows how you feel. He's probably just taking some time apart, which is good for you both. This will give you time to get over that desperate feeling of being without him and really reflect and focus on whether or not you REALLY want to be with him. There was a reason for the breakup, and you can't blame it all on yourself. If he wanted to work it out with you right now, he would. He might be feeling hurt or he might have decided he's not interested in pursuing things further. If it's meant to be, you will find a way to be together. Time will tell. He knows how you feel right now. Leave the ball in his court.
2007-01-06 19:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're probablly right about him just saying crap to look good in front of his friends, but that doesn't mean that he still likes you. In order to find out all you have to do is ask him to hang out with you. Don't repeatedly tell him you love him or ask him if he loves you. Just spend time with him and see how he acts with you. Make sure he's not just using you either tho. If when you're alone he's all nice and sweet, the next day make it a point to go with him somewhere with his friends and see how he treats you around them. They would most likely cover for him if he was playing you but you'd probablly hear it from someone within a few days if he was.
2007-01-06 18:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Somebuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a lot like you are too young to be in this either way. At this age boys are into lust and girls are into feeling wanted and loved. Both clash and create something amazing at first but that dies out quickly. leave it be and give it time, things will straighten out and as the dusk clears you will understand what you need to do.
2007-01-06 18:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Leesfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There lovely one , i must say sorry. why? you made a great mistake . Even if you are dieing for the guy i don't think that is wise enough to tell him how much you feel about him. am sorry to stop here because you don't tell us the immediate cause of you problem
2007-01-06 19:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by national don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. Take a deep breath.
Before you do or say anything just sort this all out, because it sounds like you kinda like both of these two guys. Sorry, but you're gonna have to pick one. And if you can't, just drop it and move on. Disagree to my advice if you want, but if you want to stop feeling like this and get out of this situation this is a way to go.
-hitzusen
2007-01-06 18:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by hitzusen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he s got a really big ego and he is also takin you for granted!
Just back for some time and like everything s fine and that you ve let go of him... he'll come crawling back! Learn to play this game his way.
2007-01-06 18:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two are too young to be in love if he still feels the need to impress the guys. If he loved you, he wouldn't show more affection towards his mates he'd be trying to win you back.
2007-01-06 18:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoiding him is a good idea. If he's playing games, move on. It sounds as if he already has moved on himself. Find a good-hearted guy to date and forget about him.
2007-01-06 19:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already told him once.Now ignore him and show that you dont care.Now you keep your head high.He will syrely be attracted to you.Show some attitude.
2007-01-06 18:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋