Update to earlier ques.. my age is 23
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Hi,
Well, I like this girl at work who is 5-6 yrs older than me.... have known her for last 7 months... But until last week , did not know much about her.. but... :) well, 2006 ended on a great note in which I got an oppurtunity to talk to her alone during travel, though I ended by asking most of the questions, she also asked a few.. ! anyways, now I m more open to her & know her much better.. I have also given her a lots of hints that I like her... though I dont think she likes me back in that way... probably coz age might be an issue for her.. not for me certainly... But I know she is single... so people... what do you think... is it a good idea to tell her that I like her...or let it go on like this for some time ? also please tell me how to convince her about the age thing... coz certainly there are many people of her age much better than me.. but one thing is for sure that none of them can like her & take care of her as much as
2007-01-06 18:49:24 · 18 answers · asked by Dhruv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out to lunch. It wouldn't hurt. Don't rush it if you think she is hesitant. Take your time and get to know her better. If you take it easy, you'll have a better feel as to how she feels. Good luck!
2007-01-06 18:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Age should not matter as long as you have things in common and can communicate at the same level. I really don't think your age difference is that great. I don't think you should tell her how much you like her, I would show her by asking her out for coffee - if she says yes and that goes well, then ask her to a movie, if yes and that goes well, ask her to dinner. By then, she will get the point of how you feel and you should know she is interested to because she keeps going out with you (or not-in which case, move on).
2007-01-07 02:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats sooo sweet. Sounds like you took a nose dive! I dont think you should really worry about the age thing. I think that you should try to do more of the things thst she is into. Well heres my story... I am 23 and I am married to a 17 year old. Its not the age differnce that I even cared about. Its really who he is inside and how he is as a person. You need to let her know who you really are because chances are that she doent really know if you guys havent spent too much alone time together. Let her see you for the caring sweet person that you really are and try to be closer to her but dont push it.... Just be yourself and try to get to know eveything about her as well... all the way down to her favorite past time, her fav song and her fav movie... Good luck
2007-01-07 02:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe give it a little more time. How do you know the age thing bothers her at all? I am married to someone 6 years appart and its never even been an issue. Could just be something in your head. If she likes you she will show it. But the best thing I can say if you want a girl to like you or be more interested is let her talk more! You said you asked most of the questions.. questions are good but keep HER talking. Honestly, women like to talk and talk about themselves and stuff they like. Keep me updated
2007-01-07 02:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Nash13 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, age is just a number. ;) Aside from that, what is most important is to talk to her outside of work. That would be a good time to get to know eachother more. Ask her out for lunch or whatever may strike your fancy.
But just be careful with people from work. . .it may work, it may not. Keep in mind though, whatever is meant to happen it will. Hope this helps some. . . :D
2007-01-07 03:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by joesredheadamyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i don't care abt age difference either i think that's stupid but watever my point i think that u should ask her out cuz i think that just telling her this is a bit like wat a boy or a girl would do u kno if u want to convince her abt this then u should gather up courage and just ask her out simple but i gave this advice to ssum1 b4 and just making sure it doesn't happen again... when u ask her out..... hav a date planned don't ask her out and tehn wen hte day comes u have no idea wat ur going to do!... i mean that really did happen to my friend and i had 2 be a spy and well i saw the whole thing it wasn't pretty!
2007-01-07 03:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by i_luv_ca2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting the signal thatshe is not interested in you in that way you may be correct. try asking her out socially to an event and see if it goes anywhere. Get to know her and go slow,the fact that you think there are many people better suited for her than you says you have some self esteem issues. If you think that way you will be that way. Dont creep her out be a friend and if it is meant to be it will be.
2007-01-07 02:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by realestate_leader 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to her outside of work, plan something with friends, and co-workers, let her see another side of you, the non-work version. Aside from the age, some people do not date co-workers.
2007-01-07 02:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out for coffee or lunch. Do Something casual at first. Tell her you're interested in her, and would like to get to know her better.
Good luck. She sounds like a great person!
2007-01-07 02:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is really Cliched, but, be yourself, not too needy, don't make the fact that you're younger than her painfully obvious when the two of you are together.
2007-01-07 03:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ullas. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋