I have no idea what to do. Things are really awkward between me and him, things are normal between me and my boyfriend and between the two of them. And yes, my boyfriend knows. We've only ben going out for a short amount of time, though...
2007-01-06 18:45:07 · 28 answers · asked by Ullas. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem young. Don't worry. Right now, just do what you think is best for you. Be kind to the other one. But, right now, just take care of yourself and do what's best for you. Enjoy life and enjoy the fact that you have choices!!!
2007-01-06 18:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3 some...
2007-01-06 18:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you feel anything toward this other guy (not your boyfriend)? Either way you just need to clear the air with the guy and your boyfriend if there is anything akward or unsaid. The best thing to do in ANY relationship situation is just communicate openly with the person you are with, that is if you want it to work. Love is a strong word too though.. are you sure this guy is IN LOVE with you or just wants to get in your pants.. I am a guy and I know how most guys think
2007-01-06 18:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nash13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is between the guys. If you like your boyfriend and he likes you then the third wheel needs to back off. It does seem strange that your BF is ok with his friend's feelings. I'm leaning toward telling you that something is wrong and since you have not been dating for long, I think you should just move away and wait for Mr. Right to come along.
2007-01-06 18:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like his friend more, then it is wrong to stay with the one you are currently with, that is just not that fair to either of you. If you are happy with your guy, then maybe just tell your friend that you are feeling a little uncomfortable and let him know that you really care about your boyfriend. Dont be rude, but check him on this before it breaks up a friendship or something...
2007-01-06 18:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Genius at these things! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first u have to know which one u like more. if its your boyfriend then try to avoid the other guy. make sure ur boyfriends always with u if u 2 do hang out. but if its the other guy tell ur boyfriend and he wont be mad at u, well he will a little bit. but make sure the other guy knows hes making u feel a little akward.
2007-01-06 18:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by emo01child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two-timer isn't really good. you have to ask yourself who you really love in two of them. then you must tell which of them you chose, the problem that will exist there is when the other whom you did not chose cannot accept it. But the truth must prevail, you cannot live happily if you don't choose the right one or the one whom you truly loves.
You must be true to yourself, and explain it heartily to the one you give up.
2007-01-06 18:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friend is not in love with you. He is infatuated with you. Healthy relationships do not start that way. The friend needs to know that if his infatuation becomes an issue, his presence will be unwelcomed.
Whatever happens, do not let this person interfere.
2007-01-06 18:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2007-01-06 18:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by trip 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that is difficult to answer..thats is odd that your bf wouldnt make such a fuss over this situation if he knows.. I would suggest making yourself appear unattractive to his friend, not just as far as looks but make yourself seem different....make him not want to be around you..either that or make yourself seem obssesed back with him..but like very over obsessed..where he feels nervous
2007-01-06 18:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by SLIM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋