but you dont like him at all and youre best friend dosent know anything but i think if i tell her about it, i think she'll think i am the one that likes him but please help . what do you suggest?
2007-01-06 18:36:54 · 14 answers · asked by $urpr1$3d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, if she's really your best friend then ya better spill tha beans...better to be the one who lets her know first, so what if initially she blames you, just be there for her when she realizes her dude is a pig
2007-01-06 18:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't tell her for one because she is ur best friend and she may not believe u and then u might just lose her as a friend all together If u don;t like the guy then don't worry about the guy If he starts anything just tell him to back off that his girlfriend is ur best friend ad u don't want to end that plus u don't like him
2007-01-06 18:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best to handle him privately first. Just say something like," hey,____, I could never betray my girlfriend______." Then, I would make a real point to not be around him alone because he sounds like the kind of guy who might turn the tables on you and tell your friend you're coming on to him not the other way around. I wouldn't bring it up unless she asks you about him. Trust me: Kill the messenger! is still a reality and if you initiate it, it'll come back and bite you in the a--. Just steer clear of him!!!
2007-01-06 18:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be having something important in your life like studies, career planning, job etc. Concentrate on them. Get away from the guy. You don't like him? Good. Then there is no problem.
No need to tell your friend. You will hurt her. Better stay away from them. If he is done with her, you shouldn't be the cause for the split. If you are not around and they still split, atleast you are left with your friend, who will need you more then.
2007-01-06 18:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Josephene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to tell that scum bag that you think he is a scum bag and tell him you would never ever ever ever go there with him so back the F off. Tell him that that girl happens to be your best friend and you will tell her in a qick darn second(even if you wont). He should back off after that. Geez you really need to let your friend know somehow that she is with the lowest scum on earth.
2007-01-06 18:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he's not in love.
He's greedy and he thinks he might be able to lay you in secret.
If you are any kind of friend, tell him to stop trying.
And don't allow yourself to be in a situation that leaves you two alone.
Don't take his calls, and really give him the message.
But be careful, if handled improperly, your friend could turn on you.
2007-01-06 18:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is just simple, you must first let your friend to know about it, forget what he think or not. But you must have in mind that that his friend can Poisson that you so call friend,because if he fall in love with you that means he can kill your friend and look for away to make you feel the same.
please try as much as you can to tell your Friend if you truly love him .OK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-06 18:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by national don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriends are girlfriends for all of your life...boyfriends can come and go....tell him the truth. Tell him you don't think of him in that way and that your girlfriend is very important to you. Suggest that he break up with her if he does not care for her as he did in the past. I would not tell her....it is up to him to break it off and not use you as his reason.
2007-01-06 18:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before everything, you more effective useful no longer go that line. Boyfriends come and go, yet you want all of your individuals even once you grow old. and he or she will be able to all way carry it up anytime you be conscious one yet another. yet once she brakes up, you want to ask her no matter if it really is okay consisting of her that you date him, on account that your chum has to loiter round with you, and seeing you with him may piss her off. and is it extremely love or lust, is the queston.
2016-12-28 07:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by latourette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore a guy like that, he will try with one of your other friends soon as he can, do you want to put up with that, find someone else. It will depend on how you have been acting with him, but if I was your girlfriend, I would want to be told. but I would know if you led him on or not. good luck
2007-01-06 18:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋