I dont want to have sex before marriage!!?

Question

and people keep telling me its okay to and i am like no!!
i want to save it!!
and i keep getting made fun of for wanting to wait... :[
what should i do??

Answer 1

DOn't listen to other people. Do what you want

Answer 2

Oh lord...I think in today's world it is very important to have sex before marriage. Even if it is only with the one you want to marry because if you are not compatible, your marriage will go down the drain. Sex is important in a marriage and you have to make sure that you can satisfy one another. Saving yourself for marriage is soooo 50's when women were just seen as child bearers. It is the 2000's! Change with the times girl!

Answer 3

There's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage, because honestly if you're in love (and didn't mention whether you are or not) it doesn't matter if you're married or not.. it's still going to be special.

I thought I was going to save it for marriage, but I saved it for love and I can't imagine myself with any other guy.

Just tell them to eff off, you want to wait until you find someone special to give it to not just any old jerk-off with AIDS. Your friends are wrong for telling you what to think and you should stick up for yourself. These people should respect your decision, and let you make any adjustments yourself..

You don't want to remember your first time as just another peer-pressured event.

Answer 4

I say you stick to it. Far too many people are having sex too young and then wonder why they end up with an STD, pregnant (or both in some cases for girls). I think your choice shows that you respect yourself. Don't listen to other people, just do what you believe is right for you :)

Answer 5

something like saving yourself for marriage is a very personal decision. While it is often scrutinized, like in your case, you have to be able to withstand the temptations and scrutiny. It should be yours and only your decison to wait or not, I know its hard when people are telling you its ok and making fun of you, but you have to decide for yourself and allow them to have their opinions wihle you have yours.

Answer 6

Don't listen to other people- people are idiots
You just take your time and have sex when you feel right about it. If you and the significant other get frisky, there are lots of alternatives to penetrative sex. No one ever got pregnant from masturbating.

Answer 7

I think it's awesome. One it lets the guy know you are clean and in today's world that is no easy task. Plus it shows committment and morals and values all things that a life partner would want in a mate and in a person who might one day mother their children! You're awesome!

Answer 8

I totally agree with Devil dog .. Girl stick to what you believe trust me people who make fun of what you believe in don't really like you they are not good friends they can all go to hell for all you care. Get your confidence back and stick to what you believe. And let me tell you that you are strong girl who respects her self and body .. Good luck

Answer 9

save it!

think about it this way, yes you're being made fun of, but that makes you unique. you are the one who stands up for her morals. you are the one who is different (in a good way). pretty soon people will start to think, why are you doing this? and they will respect you for not giving into pressure.

i learned to do this with my height. i'm very short (4'10") and i was made fun of my height. but i've learned to accept it and i can joke around with it. and people can say distinguishing things only about me. in a way, it does make me feel special. haha

Answer 10

I agree with you........You should save it till ur married.....Don't let anyone talk you into doing something you don't want to do.....And don't feel pressured in to having it either....And for the people who make fun of you tell them to stuff it.....

Answer 11

Just don't do it. No man (or woman) can force you to do something you are strongly against. Don't talk about sex among your friends. Simple as that.