How do you get over somebody that you know you can't have?

Question

I'm in love with somebody that I know I can't have. It's killing me right now and I just feel so confused and sad. I don't know how to move on, and I just want to get over him; but I can't. Please, I need your help. Only serious answers-thanks.

Answer 1

I think you should maybe find a hobbie, let things calm down. Maybe you can take a class at a city college and meet a nice guy, never know... The main idea is keep your self busy, so you dont think about how much you love him or how you want him to be in your life... I hope this help, I can be your buddy.. :)

Answer 2

That has happen so many times in my life time, that I finally realized how to get over them. Cry, cry, cry! Then get over it. Tommorro is a new day. Get yourself busy. I mean really, really busy. Go out with friends, have fun. Don't ever stay at home by yourself it will only hurt more. Don't lock yourself inside your bed room you'll go crazy. Stay as far away as possible from that person and limit eveyday the amount of time you think of them. Give to time. It takes a lot of it. Good Luck You can do it!!!

Answer 3

by quitting doing what you are doing right now, thinking about him and what you can't have. you can have him, maybe not in the convential way but you can still love anyone you choose although they can never love you back as you want. it may not be healthy in the long run but if it gets you through the day, then who is to say it is a bad thing, they aren't you. love whomever you want as long as you want, just be wise enuf not to share your thoughts with others. it's like telling them you saw a ufo or god talks to you, they will lock you up in a tiny room. you can tell me how much you love someone and I won't rat you out or have you locked up, I understand matters of the heart.

Answer 4

Basically you just need to stop being around him. I know all you probablly want to do is surround yourself with him and his environment because you "love" him but that's just going to make it hurt longer. It might hurt worse at first not being around him becasuse you want to be so badly, but it'll save you alot of pain in the long run. Just don't go to parties and/or places you know he's going to be at and if you run into him somewhere distance yourself and stay out of eyeline. Eventually you'll find a guy that you want to be with and that wants to be with you and you'll forget about him, although it might take awhile.

Answer 5

It's probably going to take time. Try to something (for example: running) to do that clears your mind or just makes you not think about him. I sorry for your pain. I know the feeling. Like I said it takes time though

Answer 6

All I could do was lie in bed and cry, morning, noon and night. Finally my best friend dragged me out of bed and demanded that I go out to a club with her. I definitely didn't feel like going, but she was insistent. Getting dressed up, going out, and having guys checking me out and talking to me... well.. my pain wasn't forgotten, but it sure beat lying in bed in my pajamas and crying. I then started dating 2 different guys, 1 that I met that night, just for the hell of it, and slowly I came out of it... I got interested in one of the guys. You have to go out and chat with new men, even if you don't feel like it. Its the only way.

Answer 7

yep, i know how you feel. the only thing that you can do is at least try to move on, and know in the back of your mind theres always a chance.

Answer 8

time will heal. get yourself occupied. clean up your house or room if you still live with parents. i find that when i clean and throw out stuff it releases stress and declutters the mind so you can think straight. in doing so you will probaly come across something or someones number and will occupy you energy elsewhere. think about it........

Answer 9

it takes time. just keep yourself busy and it will be done with. good luck

Answer 10

unrequited love