well if i hear people talking about people and saying she is not a virgin there all like really thats rong and also its papular not to be a virgin thats really crazy and this is in middle school
2007-01-06 18:27:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm in grade 8 and i notice the same thing here but i personally think that is tacky and slutty and desperate to be going around saying you are not a virgin. that is something that i don't think anybody should really know. the guys that aren't virgins are considered popular(by the other guys) but the girls are considered to be a whore or slut or skank (by both guys and girls)or w/e you want to call them. Secondly middle school popularity isn't based on your sex life, i know this because like i said i'm in middle school and am a virgin so yah. Yah this might change in seniour high but i think that is because we are older and going through puberty and all that. Hope that helps you understand the situation.
2007-01-06 18:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honest answer to your question is the affirmative.
Over Five Billion people in the World have respect for virginity, and all those girls who are not virgin in school are in absolute minority.
Never consider your school, think how many schools we have in the World...still most of schools in the World do not allow mix students, girls having their own schools until university.
Therefore, there is no doubt that the majority people of World have TRUST that the girls who lost their virginity did WRONG.
This fact may be used to encourage the girls have respect for their body
2007-01-07 03:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be a virgin in middle school. It's good to be a virgin then. It's even good in H.S. That's the crazy thing about 9-12 graders. Omg, I guess its 6-12 these days. It's 'popular' to lose your virginity, then they call you a '****' and so on. Wait until H.S. Heck, maybe you wanna wait until after H.S. Many lucky girls have sex in H.S., don't get pregnant, then may alter their feelings about sex during H.S. They may wait for the 'right guy' or until after H.S. Consider dry humping a guy if you think he's special and won't try to get "as much of your fruit as possible" if you will, and then bolt. Just rub on him (doesn't matter who's on top) (You on top if you want more control of where it goes) with both of you keeping your clothes on if you think its Absolutely necessary. For heaven's sake you're in Middle School.
2007-01-07 02:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Rocksburg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not tryin 2 sound like a parent or anything but u shouldnt even be worried bout sex in middle school...i know thats easier said than done tho...da only time i think its bad to be a virgin is if u still wanted to be a virgin and u already had sex...dats why ppl should make sure they really wanna do it so they wont have any regrets
2007-01-07 02:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with sex , and fooling around you have hormones in your body telling you or forcing you to do theses things. But try to fight the urge or just masturbating until you are old enough to understand what you are doing. Do not have sex because everyone else is or because you new boyfriend demands it or says he will leave you. You can give a boy sexual pleasure without losing your virginity.
Were I live its ok to lose your virginity as long as its not like you open your legs for every guy that gives you the look.
2007-01-07 02:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whoa middle school? it is most definately not a bad thing to be a virgin.
those people are probably just trying to act cool. i remember when i was in 8th grade, the new 6th graders at my school were talking about drinking and doing drugs, because that made them sound mature, like they're better than everyone else. but it doesn't.
not at all.
2007-01-07 02:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by CrazySnail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that and when I was in school it was known as cool if you lost your virginity but the truth is that it doesn't make you any different then you are now, with the exception of early motherhood and diseases, which you don't want either.. if your gonna do it though make sure he wears a condom and make sure your on the pill and that you get tested for stds :) :) :)
2007-01-07 02:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you use the spell checker? Can't you read? It is not BAD to be a virgin but if you are in BED with someone of the opposite sex you most likely will find that you won't be one for long. Depends how bright you are and by your spelling, I would say that you're not too bright and will be pregnant very shortly.
2007-01-07 02:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by ideflitch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are in middle school, by the looks of your spelling I thought you were in elementary. Forget about losing your virginity and hit the dictionary.
2007-01-07 02:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in middle school than you better be a Virgin!
2007-01-07 02:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋