Ok I have a new boyfriend and we have been 2gether for a month now but I have MAJOR trust issues because of two of my ex boyfriend's and my boyfriend says that he would never cheat on me, and that he is not my ex boyfriend 's, and that he has never cheated on a girl and why would he start now and I want to believe him and trust him but I don't know how. How can I get my trust for boys back without thinking they are all going to hurt me in some way mostly cheating?? I really don't wanna lose him.
2007-01-06 18:21:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've been burned before, so you definitely have that working against you.
Let me tell you this. This whole jealousy thing will drive him away if you continue. My wife almost lost me early in our relationship because she didn't trust me, even though I never gave her any reason to doubt me.
I don't mean to be mean, but keep your mouth shut about this. If you find you are just having trouble trusting him, then take it slow. The trust will come.
2007-01-06 18:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple fact is that there's nothing you can do to stop him from cheating. Either he's going to or he's not. There's no point in beating yourself up worrying about it... if he doesn't great, if he does, you're going to have to try it all over again with someone else and you're gonna have the same problem. Just try to pay attention to any signs that he is cheating so if it happens you dont get skrewed for too long.
2007-01-07 02:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Somebuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I saw that you dont except email or IM but I think I could really help you... My name is Christy and I am from North Carolina.. I am really good with these sort of things so if you really need the help you can IM me @ minoritygurlgd ___ Well I hope I helped
2007-01-07 02:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by minoritygurlgd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT ASSUME! try not to go insane thinkin your man is going to cheat on you! unless you have a reliable source of info or if you've seen it yourself and have evidence you cant assume. it only ruins things between both of you. trust me that is what happened over summer for me.
try to talk to him about it and be more open to what happened before in his life. of course it'll be uncomfortable but you cant hold in issues that concern both you and him. it'll only make you more paranoi.
2007-01-07 02:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Erick 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my advice to you is to forget your trust issues. i lost a very good man by feeling that way. don't make him pay for other sorry men mistakes. let him make his own mistakes. because if you continue you will end up regretting it because you have lost a good man. so please give him a chance and keep me posted. milksgirl2
2007-01-07 02:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by milksgirl2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u just have to trust him till he gives u a reason not to trust him coz not everyone is ur ex,s
2007-01-07 02:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by vakere2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you gain trust with love and experience. you just need to chill and let him know how you feel.
2007-01-07 02:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by nobodyinparticular...lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to him to prove you wrong princess.
2007-01-07 02:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by andrea 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
STOP COMPARING
2007-01-07 02:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋