OKAY so let me tell u this story that happend to me.
My dad told me that i could go out, if i was back by 12...so i was like okay i will..i didnt get back 'till 12:05 cuz we had to drop sum other chick off first and her mamma was NOT happy..well as u kno, its COLD outside *or at least where i live* so i was outside for 30 min. now, i already am sick.. i dont have a jacket on *i know that stupid* but i told him to have the door unlocked so all i would have to do is open and shut/lock the door he said "fine"so iget there and its locked. i bang on the door, i call, and i bang on his window.NO ANSWER.that makes me really mad....so i call my sis, she cant come and get me cuz "im too far away" and i call my mom and she was like "bang on his window" and she hung up on me, but she came and got me..so now my mom said "when he calls 2morrow, dont answer, cuz he needs to know better" and i said "okay" and now im SO mad i dont know what to dohow should i handle this? should i pick up? or not?
2007-01-06 17:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well when he calls you will have a gut reaction either to pick up or not. I would not pick up because you told him personaly to keep the door unlocked. It is his own loss and do what your heart desires. You cant have people to tell you what to do when it involves family because not many people will know. Talk to your friends and other people inn your family and you will know the answer!!
2007-01-06 18:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your dad was doing he was teaching you a lesson for being 5 minutes late.I bet he locked that door at 12:00 when you wasnt home and just would not answer....I don,t think he did the right thing he should have let you in and grounded you on something if he felt that strong about it..You don,t solve anything by not talking...You should tell him what happened....From now on when you go out,if he says 12:00 try to be home a few minutes early....He was wrong and you were too,but he was really wrong by locking you out....He is trying some tough Love tactics
2007-01-07 02:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would most definitely answer the phone when your dad calls. I mean what if something happened and he wasn't able to let you in? He could have an excuse for why he wasn't there or something. Just like how you have an excuse for being a few minutes late. I hope everything works out! Best of luck
2007-01-07 02:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Kathyy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please always remember that your dad will always be your dad, and if this is the first time he has done this, then maybe give him another chance, more importantly, there could be a chance that he just was an old man and forgot and locked the door early by accident. Either way. I really hope you sort things out.
2007-01-07 04:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Corrine L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you skip a part. But I will try my best to answer. You should answer his call and explain your part of the story and then have him explain. After if his excuse wasn't good enough then get mad. Yell a little that always helps me when I am mad.
2007-01-07 02:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by ronnie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing solves by not talking.Tell him what happened and how you feel.He wants to teach you a lesson,but he is being a bit too hard on you.I'll say talk to him.
2007-01-07 02:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋