i screwed with her head (more to the last question) what to say ?

Question

my last question...
im 31 and single i dont really want a g/f but i do like hooking up. my 21 year old brother lives with me and my 4 year old son. my brothers friend, ashley is always at my house hanging out with him. shes 19, about 2 weeks ago she was over and i was tlaking to her and one thing led to another. for a week we went out on dates and stuff and then a couple of days ago we began to have sex, she told me she was a virgin and i told her i love her to make her feel better about it. we had sex then the next day i didnt know how to tell her that thats all it was so i just began being a jerk. my brother told me earlier that shes been real depressed lately and idk if i should try talking to her or just forget about it ? shell get over it eventually right ?

i decided to call the girl but idk what to say to her. any suggestions ? im scared if i talk to her though im just going to be more of a jerk to her

Answer 1

I feel so sorry for the girl having to give up her virginity to a real jerk like you....VIRGINITY is the most valued asset a girl could present to her husband after the marriage....had it been love, there will be no question...Next time ask first before screwing because a girl will never forget her first for the rest of her life....and you just made her memories horrible...so go and see her and say sorry...and please say it wholeheartedly.

Answer 2

You told her you loved her to get into her pants....and she was a virgin. Wow....Why would you do such a thing? Is this the girl you are beating? Because if it is and she has sunk into a depression...you need to stop and think about whether or not getting into her pants and kicking the siht out of her was worth her potnentially committing suicide. Just a guess, but I have been in her position (a very very long time ago) and that is probably what she has been thinking.

Answer 3

Given that you are 31 yrs of age you should have steered clear of the young lady unless you wanted something like this to happen. I'm sure you have been around the block where she isn't even around the corner. There is nothing you can say or do that is going to give her back what you have taken by your blatant lie of telling her that you love her. You should have known better.

Answer 4

ok I don't know what your last question was but why be a jerk to her at all.. why not try to just to be honest at this point with her to help her out, so she's not sittin there hurting over you.. you should remember that how you treat others will come back to you and you should look at why your really single and don't say it's cause you want it that way either.. your pathetic to hurt another in that way, I can honestly see why your single :) :) :)

Answer 5

This is what can happen when you simply use someone! You have hurt her and should consider calling her and telling her that you know you behaved badly. Apologize to her sincerely. You need not pursue a relationship with her but you must be honest about your unconscionable behavior. Please learn from this experience in order to become a better man. Good luck.

Answer 6

ok first of all what you did was wrong. i had this just happen to me. but you need to talk to her and explain that she did nothing wrong and the real reasons why you were being a jerk. if he had of told me all that i wouldnt have beat myself up about it so much

Answer 7

u are a jerk u were her 1st u should talk to her and being such a jerk and at least try to be a friend

Answer 8

I think this was a really mean thing to do, you took advantage of this girl. You need to just talk to her and apologize and move on.

Answer 9

do you like her if yes just start again life

Answer 10

tell her what a jerk you were, she'll meet more.