im a 16 year old boy, and there is this really cute guy on the water polo team who wares a cow boy hat. I love to come and watch him swim. i also like watching him shower. any good advice is apreciated.
2007-01-06 17:54:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off you got to make sure he is intrested in guys first once you got that done then you need to just try and start off with small talk, about how you have seen him play and how he is really good, then work it up from there to asking him to hang out ...
2007-01-06 17:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, that's really creepy that you watch him in the shower. I'm okay with people being gay, but I think it's a violation of privacy when gay men share a bathroom with straight men. You just reinforced my feelings on this. If you don't know for sure that he's gay, I wouldn't even go there. Hetero guys may not be cool with getting hit on...matter of fact, it may get you beat up. I don't mean to be blunt, but it's certainly true. If he's gay too...what the hell, just ask him out. Don't continue to be a creepy pig though, have a little respect for him.
2007-01-06 17:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your pretty bold to admit this online and since no ones ever asked something like this as far as im concerned you should ask him is he wants to go to see a scary movie or something I dont know but I wish you luck.
2007-01-06 18:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ky_bello 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Steer away from the groin- guy's don't like being hit there. I;d keep it in the chest/shoulder area. :)
2007-01-06 17:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by slaughter114 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him soap on a rope as a gift
2007-01-06 18:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by les s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ur gay and ur in high school dont even thnk about hitting on another guy unless u want to get embarassed
2007-01-06 17:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
be VERY careful!!!!!!!!!!
If it he is not gay or out of the closet it can be very dangerous.
Make friends with him first JUST friends let him know in a casual way you are gay well that is if you are out of the closet.
But just make everything casual and find out if he is into girls or guys.
and be VERY CAREFUL!
2007-01-06 17:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You got to get to know him, so find ways to be with him and talk.
2007-01-06 17:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by Michael C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him how cool his cowboy hat is! Then you can start touching him! btw...are you gay? I have nothing against it, just curious!
2007-01-06 17:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude that is really gross, youre just asking for insults right now
2007-01-06 17:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Italian Stallion 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋