i'm in 11 grade i love this gal in my grade....loved her the second i saw her now its been like 6 months and we became best friends we talk everyday and i'm scared i'm too close as a friend and cant get closer how do i maker her love me...i dunno if she loves me and i even dunno if she knows i love her...
2007-01-06 17:34:49 · 15 answers · asked by ashe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her if she feels the same...
2007-01-06 18:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I'd have to say that you might be a little late. You've probably entered her "friend zone." You should have done something earlier, like 3 months ago. But...if she's easy-going, it wouldn't hurt for you to ask her.
I experienced this before too. Two times and I'm in the 12th grade. The first one I liked her since the 3rd grade, but I didn't do anything about it until the 9th grade, since we're much more mature now. Too bad, I entered her "friend zone." We even got together for three weeks and two days; all she did was lead me on, in the end, she couldn't get me out of that zone. The second one, I've known her for about 4 months and we talked almost everyday too, but she only thinks of me as a brother.
I'd say take up the courage and ask her for yourself. But you should hint it at her, or since you talk everyday ask her about what she looks for in a guy and stuff like that and see if it seems to hint you.
2007-01-07 01:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she does like you. If she does, great. If she doesn't, tough. If you tell her and she rejects you, your friendship won't ever be the same. Now you have to choose between what you want. Would you rather have her as a friend, or lose her trying to get with her? Tough, I know. I would just take a chance. You can always try to move on and still be friends, though not as close. If you get over her and find a new girl, things can go back to the way they were.
2007-01-07 01:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say, is that when you are in love, and together, whoever you are with, is your best friend. If you two are truly best friends, and you tell her, and the feeling aren't mutual, maybe you can work through it, maybe not... But isn't worth it to try? If you are wondering, Yes it is worth it to try.. Live your life to the fullest, love the people around you to the fullest, and NEVER look back..
2007-01-07 01:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by JarJarBinks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i see it, you have two options:
1.) you can ask her straight up.
2.) you can just keep being her best friend
see, if she doesn't feel the same way, you can potentially taint an everlasting friendship. but ask yourself: after years go by, will you regret not asking her how she feels about you? indeed love is a trivial thing, but you have to weigh your costs and benefits.
2007-01-07 22:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by so close 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do small hints.... like play mario's "let me love you" and sing it too her, and give her some of ur lunch or walk her home, maybe lend her ur jacket. good luck.... i'm in 10th and i tried with a close gal friend of mine.... didn't work that well.
2007-01-07 01:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Slim J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stare into her eyes, EYE CONTACT DAMNIT! Lots of it!
And get your face closer to her's, sometimes close enough to kiss, if she stares back- and doesn't pull back and it feels right- then kiss her.
Nothing too abrupt, all subtle.
2007-01-07 01:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by michael d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her how you feel. Don't pressure her and give her a chance to think. If she rejects you, keep it cool and tell her you want to always be her friend.
2007-01-07 01:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by ameygnzlz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to use persuasive language wit her.
Slowly try to advance
if you love her, if not, just stay friends
2007-01-07 01:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur gonna have to tell how you feel and then see if she fells the same way so good uck
2007-01-07 01:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋