We went back to my house and it was 9:30 i asked her to stay a bit she agreed. It ended up i didn't get her to her meeting until 10:30. Her boss was ANGRY at her because the meeting was only an hour long. He said he needed to have a talk with her after the meeting. She kept saying she was sorry and wanted to explain. I waited for her to come out she was upset in tears and told me to drive her home. When i asked her what was wrong she told me i got fired don't want to talk and this is your fault!!! WHAT DID I DO??? Is she going to dump me??? IS THIS REALLY MY FAULT?? HELP
2007-01-06 17:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No - it's not your fault. You asked her to stay and she said okay... she's an adult (I assume) this is her responsibility. Granted, you didn't help her get to her meeting on time - but ultimately it was her responsibility. She just got fired - so expect her to be upset. All you can say is you're sorry and let her simmer down. She'll come to her senses.
2007-01-06 17:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by karespromise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok if she had a meeting , you should of just changed your big night out. Even though it took alot of planning, its not your fault she got fired "why was she even having a meeting at 10 at night??" that seems really weird.
However she could have at any point expressed her point about leaving to make it to her meeting in time. Unless you kept tellin her stay a bit longer and a bit longer.... then you did have a bit to do with her being fired.
If she does dump you, you need to make sure in the future you dont get upset by things you cant control.
And be more flexible not think about just your self.
2007-01-07 01:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not your fault. it was just a bad night and she knew how important her meeting was. so she shoudlve said "maybe we should just go home and spend the night together till i have to go to the meeting" but its not your fault oyu had to frive around so much. and you cant really say its your fault for makign her late since she was the one who wanted to go out and do all that. im sure she is just upset right now that she got fired from her job.l you guys can always talk afterwards and see what ahppens from there. but if she dumps you for this then she isnt the one for you. she seems a bit selfish you were only trying to give her a nice evening yet she does this to you... im sorry.. she does seem a bit selfish...
also. for your gf part one. after you run out of space there is a toolbar at the bottom of the paragrapgh and on the rigth hand side the + button you can click that and add more detail. instead of wasting so many points (just so you know)
2007-01-07 01:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so im a girl and i know how your girlfriend feels. First i want to say its really nice you take your girlfriend out and try and make it the best night. but my question is did she watch the time too? I know she told you before hand that you need to drop her off at the meeting at 10:00 and she was late and then got fired. well one shes blowing off steam and you were the closest thing to yell at but if i were you i would just tell her your really sorry. and i know this might sound crazy but maybe try talkin to her boss and tell her boss that you were the reason she was late and that if you would give her one more chance she will never be late again. i dont think she would brake up with you but just tell her your sorry in time she will forgive this whole problem and everything should be ok. but good luck and hope all goes well
2007-01-07 01:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by mikki 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The fault lies with you both. You should have driven her to her meeting even though it was a little early. You both could have sat in the car and spent some time together conversating until it was time for her meeting. She could have made this suggestion to.
2007-01-07 01:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by lisaraye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP AND RUN! I've read your other questions. She sounds like she is using you as a whipping post and blaming you for everything that goes wrong. Time to meet a gal that is grateful you took the effort to take her out.
Good luck, HTH
2007-01-07 01:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all apologize and send her some really nice flowers. Talk to her boss and tell him it was your fault, maybe he'll reconsider. If in a few days she hasnt forgivin you i would get over it and move on. DUMP her. She shouldn't have stayed if she new she had to be there. thecnically its her fault. And if she does dump you find a new girl cause shes not worth it!!
2007-01-07 01:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by pixie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
in some ways it is your fault you know what time she had to be there for that meeting but she also knew what time she had to be there. give her some time to work thorugh what happened tonight. but iwouldnt put all the blame on you. she hass tor ealize her part in this. if she breaks up with you then she doesnt take resonability for her part, but like i said you knew what time she was to be at the meeting.
2007-01-07 01:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't she go to the meeting at 9:30pm and why did you ask her to stay?
2007-01-07 01:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not ur fault u just wanted 2 have a nice night wit her!!! if she really like u then she wont dump u!!
2007-01-07 01:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by tellia a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋