i met this guy while i was in the military, we've talked a few times, but nothing serious. One day we were watching tv in the day room together and he asked me what I like to do and I told him I like to dance and that Im a fan of Janet Jacskon and know alot of her dance videos. So, he was like, "why dont you show me?" so I did and brung my stereo and one of my janet jackson cds and danced for him. I did that dance called, "nasty boys" in his dorm room. He told me that I was really good. Then all of a sudden, he starts saying,"Can I give you a massage?" I let him, then he started kissing on my neck and stuff. So, I"m thinking , did he use that as an excuse to get close to me or did I just turn him on? just curious
2007-01-06 17:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He planned it.
2007-01-06 17:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you turned him on. I think he was just a little curious and a little interested in you but once you started dancing and being in his dorm room (and the nasty boys song probably didn't help) he really was turned on by you. But then again i don't know the guy so i could be wrong.
2007-01-06 17:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally as a guy Ive been in this exact situation. My opinion on the whole thing is that he probably was already interested in you before you jiggled your booty, but the opportunity presented its self conveniently for him to get close to you. In my mind if Im alone with a girl and she agrees to dance for me in private she must have some sort of attraction to put the energy into something sexy like that. Although, once you did dance for him Im sure it sparked his interest even more so and gave him the intense urge to get his hands on you. I don't think its a black and white this or that.
2007-01-06 17:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Shwack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO He was hitting on you when he asked you to his room, and whether you know it or not, you were being receptive to him by going to his room to dance for him.
2007-01-06 17:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Matt ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hit his "Hot Spot" when he watched you dance!
2007-01-06 17:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think it was you who planned to turn him on.
2007-01-06 17:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he use what as an excuse?
2007-01-06 17:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoyed it, what is the problem?
2007-01-06 17:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by h4rmony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You turned him on...
2007-01-06 17:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋