Why do women choose to sleep with men without protection and then end pregnant? Why do they go ahead and have the child when they already know that the man is a loser? Then once the child is born she wants to talk bad about the father of her child.
Why do women choose bad men from the beginning and think they are going to change later? Unless you're raped, the man can't have sex without your participation, so why are women making such poor choices when it comes to picking their baby daddy?
2007-01-06 17:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope you'll keep on being Mr. Nice, 'cause that's who the girls end up with.
I made a very poor choice when I began a relationship with my daughter's father. I chose to overlook his shortcomings and focus on his few good points, which eventually were suffocated by his bad points. However, I think a relationship with that sort of man made me all the more appreciative when I met someone nice.
My daughter's father wanted to marry me, and I refused. I married Mr. Nice Guy, and we've been happy for a long time. BTW, my daughter turned out great...since her natural father wasn't part of her life and she was raised by two conscientous parents.
2007-01-06 17:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a single mother I can say I have been pretty naive when it comes to men. My children's father said all the right things. Oh baby I love you, I want to marry you, I want to have children with you, I can't live without you...blah blah blah. I believed him and did not hold his past against him b/c I was no angel myself. I gambled on him and lost. I stayed with him even after finding out he was a loser b/c I was stupid enough to think if I loved him enough he would change.
I didn't grow up with a father and that's protbably why I have such poor judgement when it comes to distinguishing the good men from the losers. I wish I did have a father around growing up to talk to me about dating. Maybe I wouldn't have made a lot of the mistakes I've made.
2007-01-07 01:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
not all women are dumb asses its just that sometimes men arent what they seem at first there is such a thing as lying and some men do a lot of that also some women lack good judgement so be careful what u say
2007-01-07 01:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
woman dont chose it just seems to happen that way. just like one person said they tend to be great when you first meet them then they turn. but the same goes for woman it just isnt men who are losers. women seem to gravitate to there role models there fathers if they had a abusive child hood they seem to find the men just like there dads in adult life that just seems to happen and the only way it will not is if the woman or man sees the pattern and trys to break the chain
2007-01-07 01:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie o 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Path of least resistance. If you're not a loser, you'll be picky. If you want a baby, you'll **** a bottle of pepsi to get pregnant.
2007-01-07 01:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, like Stevie D said, maybe they pick losers because they are losers themselves. You read too much into it. You think she s pretty so she must be worth it. She can be just as dumb as dirt. Most likely she picks losers because she is one.
2007-01-12 15:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by juanpeligroso1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, the loser men make better lovers.
2007-01-07 01:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
why do guys pick losers ,so they feel needed and rescue them (the knight in shinning armor ) my first love was a bad girl afterr i divorced her a woman picked me because i wasent a bad boy and she didnt need rescued (damsel in distress ) i picked her because we were friends first then lovers , inside is as important as outside ,i got both
2014-07-08 08:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Larry bo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
losers knows how to talk to women... and if an accident happens like gets pregnant is hard to have an abortion... is not like you can get up one morning and say hey today i don't want to be pregnant... a baby is a gift no matter were it comes from...
2007-01-07 01:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sometimes they thing having sex with them or getting pregnant will change the man, make him more responsible and faithful I guess.
2007-01-07 01:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by sgrjackson1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋