we have decided to be friends after knowing each other for a month, we went to travel together and we both just got out of relationships. something happened bet us and it was so intimate, we felt like we were enjoying each other's company so much...he misses me, and i feel im falling for him.. i know he likes me but do you think he's falling for me too?
2007-01-06 17:16:32 · 22 answers · asked by cutesy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya, thats really cute and great. get together if you really like him so much and dont delude yourself of anything. if he is pushing your buttons just right and trying to get laid it will happen. If you think there ever comes some sort of moment that feels more like a leap of faith than something you are also interested in then maybe you have been dreaming a tad too much. That can be unfair to both him and yourself. Especially if he is really into you. Even a gentleman will be ready to bump things up a notch before you will by the mere chemistry of his being. This is why I say be careful not to be dreaming to big when it comes to intimacy because he may misread you if you arent being honest.
Intimacy is not about so much doing wild things together as much as it is finding true personal comfort and openness with that person. Take your time and lead him to appreciate you rather than some thing you think he wants you to be like to keep his attention.
I think all the cynical, snide remarks of the shallow minds of little faith here displayed also reflects a fascinating aspect of hypocritical, whiny, spoiled, deluded american culture which spawned me and I utterly reject. Its a country where the divorce rate is almost 60% alot like the answers here that think intimacy = sex.
Intimacy with one person can be better than a lifetime of sex with random partners.
Just be careful that hes not one of all these other idiots that equates sex to intimacy. It is something special you can take time to develope and cherish.
2007-01-06 17:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by jorluke 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi, Some guys have a complex about being "the only one" during an encounter, personally and for many of my friends, we don't care about the past history as long as all is safe some guys find themselves vulnerable during! But NO Myself and my male friends and most of the other guys if they where being honest with you really don't care! It's the present that counts not the past! Logically it doesn't figure on the web as it is non sexual anyway! Best Bill
2016-05-23 02:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's quite possible he has feelings for you, and when he said he wanted to be intimate with you, he might have meant he wanted to sleep with you but even if he did mean that, he still may have feelings for you. He would probably want to sleep with you alot more if he has genuine feelings for you. You are the best person to know if he is falling for you, trust your gut instinct. If he is falling for you he wont hide it for long!
2007-01-06 17:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using a buzz word to try to get you in the sack. Many women say men have intimacy issues and that usually has nothin to do with sex.
If you like him give it a shot, what the hell.
2007-01-06 17:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by django716 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More than likely he is trying to say he wants to have sex with you. He may even want a relationship. If you can't discuss feelings with him though, it's probably not a good idea to be having sex with him.
2007-01-06 17:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by QuestionQueen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many definations of Intimacy. It could be that he has a longlasting love or most probably sex. In my opinion, I think it is sex. For him, intimacy is short 4, "I want to f#@* your a## so bad and I want it now. But then again this is me opinion.
2007-01-06 17:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not sex...no not quite...he wants that feeling right before sex...like your almost certain that you'll have sex but theres a glimmer of doubt....your both aroused and heating up and you can see the emotion of your love getting ready to burst
gah i have a perverted mind for a 13 yr old
sorry i think i went a lil over board
2007-01-06 17:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by hopelessly romantic♥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he said it exactly like that. he wants to have sex with you but passionate, loving and caring sex. It means that he wants to have sex but he really likes you
2007-01-06 17:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Corey D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is that what he actually said, or did you clean it up for us for "publication"?
It's that no guy would say that or a statement like "I think it is time the we have sexual intercourse together."
2007-01-06 17:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he feels that he is ready to go to the next step. if you are both ready for it, i can't see whats stopping you.
2007-01-06 17:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋