my boyfriend masterbates, wouldn't he like it better if "i" gave him a hand job instead? cause weve been going out for over a month now, and i thought he'd ask me to give him a hand job to him by now instead of him doing it to himself........
2007-01-06 17:06:07 · 11 answers · asked by US 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Id suggest a BJ instead.
2007-01-06 17:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by bea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship is different. Perhaps this guy respects you more than others did and is willing to wait to you get to know each other more and build a little trust. Or he is embarrassed and maybe hasn't had much experience with girls. Let it ride, see what happens, enjoy the relationship, don't feel desperate, don't do that to yourself.
2007-01-06 17:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...well sex is always an option. If you're not ready though, its understandable guys not being into hand jobs. No guy really wants them. They can do it themselves, and frankly better. They jus know what they like I guess. Go down on him its like a million times better for them.
2007-01-06 17:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by BAMF* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to be sexually intimate, wait honey. I would suggest waiting til marriage, but that's almost impossible. I know how desiring someone can be. I would say, that if he's jerking it infront of you, it's a bit weird. But if you wanna give it to him, tell him, ask him to teach you how he likes it. They like it when you ask.
2007-01-06 17:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by QuestionQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 17:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be too shy to ask if he's doing it in front of you,maybe he's waiting for you to WANT to do it to him on your own.Take it in hand and see how it goes.
2007-01-06 17:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything your not ready to do. don't let him pressure you into anything. alot of people wait for over three months before getting physical. some people don't get physical until marraige. go at your own pace, and find someone who can go your pace as well.
2007-01-06 17:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you want to give him one, so just tell him that.
2007-01-06 17:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ariella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your handjob can help the relationship.
But I am sure he doesn't mind letting you give him a handjob.
2007-01-06 17:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by Ocean 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask him?
2007-01-06 17:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by MD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋