ok, im an aries, and aries are very dominant, they are very sexually active, but my boyfriend on the other hand is not the type to make the first move,all the time, but see the problem is, that i like to be on bottom, so....what do u think, bottom gets more action?or top?, what are some good moves,tecquines, to do that lets us both have fun but at the same time, getting to be where I want to be???? can yall help me....
2007-01-06 17:02:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I too am an Aries and can totally relate. You can continue to make the first move...with your words and then see what happens from there. Maybe whisper something really erotic in his ear that you'd love for him to do to you. This may entice him a bit to take over. Let him know what a stud he is. When talking to him make sure you say things like ...'YOU make me feel so good'...or 'I love it when YOU' do that to me...you get the point. Just tease him so badly that he can't help but to ravish you...it'll be like you're pushing him over the sexual cliff. Regardless of how shy a guy is in this department...he's still a man and there's only so much he can take.
2007-01-06 17:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well communication is key ask him what he likes and just explore with one another. the bottom is how you like it but me being a guy loves the female on top but switching it up is what its about to just get a feel of what works very well and what does not
2007-01-07 01:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by primet21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab him by the arms and hold him down, then say "I want you to be more aggressive and take charge sexually or I'm going to beat the crap out of you." Then plop down on your back with your legs spread and say "Well?"
2007-01-07 01:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you gotta be on top to have the power although there is a nice position when its on the side. its fun for both. very close & pleasurable.
2007-01-07 01:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then give him a pair of cuffs and let him have his way with you. that works with me. my past 12 boyfriends were like that too.
enjoy your sexually active life!
2007-01-07 01:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
games. play games. buy a book with different positions and look at it with him and pick certain ones that you both would like to try. guide him in the bedroom to do the things you like him to do...
2007-01-07 01:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doggie style
2007-01-07 01:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the dominant, do it you way , or teach him how to do it the way you want. Tell him where and how. you have to talk.
2007-01-07 01:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to meet me and I will show you every move
2007-01-07 01:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by killer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew... I am going through the same thing.
2007-01-07 01:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋