is it really hard to ever trust that person again. what if they arent patient enough to go thru the trials of regaining that trust? should a person let it go once they trust is broken? or should they try and make it work no matter what it takes?
2007-01-06 17:00:44 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi sweetie, if the guy is not patient enough to allow you the time to build up your trust in him again, then dump him because if he truly means he's sorry and that he loves you, he would be patient to give you time. If he doesn't .... well, he's a jerk - it's like he's standing on the side lines with his arms crossed saying ' come on trust me ' and not giving you the opportunity to feel the relationship as it continues.
I've seen people lose sight of life and totally focused on a partner whose been cheating, following their every move, etc. and me, I was able to go on and I just prayed to God to help in giving me the strength not to change me to where I never trust a man again and with this, I've been able to 'function' in life.
2007-01-06 17:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU KIDDING? YOU ARE WONDERING IF YOU SHOULD TRUST THAT IDIOT? ABSOLUTELY NOT! He is telling you right to your face not to trust him! He's lying to you and causing a fight so he doesn't have to be with you and you wonder if you should trust a loser that is lying and then going to home to HIS WIFE!!! You must be 15 years old or younger. You can't possibly be this unintelligent if you are an adult. Well it's time to grow up no matter how old you are! That is so ridiculous! He is just a loser and he's just playing you for a complete fool. You know WHY? BECAUSE YOUR LETTING HIM PLAY YOU FOR A COMPLETE FOOL! If you choose to be treated like a piece of dirt, that's how everybody, ESPECIALLY YOUR BF) will treat you. If you choose to have lots of class and only be treated like a diamond, that's how you will be treated. C'mon you don't love that jerk and he certainly doesn't love you. All you are to him is someone to cheat with. "The mistress". You don't even know what love is yet. Well you are only going to get really hurt if you continue to deal with his stupid life. Get him out of your life and whatever you do DON'T GET PREGNANT!!! That's when you will be a struggling single mother trying to raise a child with a job and constantly searching for him for child support. It's so obvious that you will never get child support from him! You will never get anything from him! Get rid of that loser while you still have an excellent life and lots of pride and dignity! Good Luck
2016-03-29 00:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can trust again. The reason, My boyfriend now cheated on me 2 times. It was hard and we did break up a couple of times, but i do believe I can trust him now. Trust is something that everyone deserves and it is hard to get back once you have lost it. It is all on how hard you are willing to work at it and if your bf is will to stop doing what it is he did to loss your trust. And is it worth trying to save. Sometimes its not worth all the pain, but thats something you will have to decide. No one else knows how your heart is feeling but you. Good luck....by the way ive been with my bf for 9 1/2 yrs.
2007-01-06 17:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by betterwithage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how much strength both people have. Once trust is broken, it can take awhile to get it back - and alot of prove that trust can be given.... Alot of fights can occur, and it could lead to further implications of the relationship... It could also lead to the trust being broken over and over again, and you repeatedly giving the other person another chance, creating a neverending cycle. Its totally up to you in the end though... if he is willing to prove himself, and you are willing truly see it with open eyes, go for it.
2007-01-06 17:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to trust him again and if you find yourself not being able to then let go and move on. If he isn't patient with you then let him go. You can trust again but it is up to both of you.
2007-01-06 17:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to rebuild the trust. Yes, it is soo hard to trust that person again.If he wants you to trust him again you will know it.You can only make the decision on whether to let go or not.I cannot give you the answers that you are looking for.I'm having Trust issues myself with my husband of 25yrs.
2007-01-07 04:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go. That issue never goes away. It never becomes something that is in the back of your mind.... nuh-uh... it's always in the forefront. Everytime he's gone 10 minutes later than he says he will be, you'll suspect he's cheating, even if he just got caught in traffic. It's not worth torturing yourself over.
2007-01-06 17:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it's up to you---but don't you think you can do better than this---lots of time wasted on a bum who isn't sorry he cheated---he's sorry he got caught. you already know the answer---do something about it...God ---get a grip and move on---he had his chance---go find a nice guy,
2007-01-06 17:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth it babe, if you don't trust him, dump him after all there isn't a relationship without trust
2007-01-06 17:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant trust ur best friend nomore...its not ur fault is ur best friends...cuz when she really wants 2 knw sumthing ur not going 2 be able 2 tell them....so i think that once da trust is broken its broken....u cant fix it
2007-01-06 17:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mrz. Small 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋