I like my friend who is in an online relationship?

Question

I told her that i like her, which made her act weird. Later on, i couldnt stand it anymore and i lied to her by tellin her that i dont like her that i dont like her anymore which made things return to normal. The thing is that shes in an online relationship wit a kid who lives in iowa(U.S) and she has never met him in person. My friends told me to wait for them to break up so that i can move i. SHould i wait?. By the way, since shes thinkin that im over her, she made that kid talk to me on msn and i have his id.

Im a high school senior by the way, shes in grade 11. We live in Canada.

Answer 1

Well don't worry about it online love never work out man. He can't hold her when she crys , he can touch her and what not. It's just infatuation and thats all that it is. Trust me. Simple way to break them out is to give girl you know is id and have her flirt with him...sex talk and stuff. then have her save the conversation and send it too you. Where you so happenly have the info can you give it too your friend.. she crys on your shoulder and your in.

Answer 2

I don't hold much stock in on-line "relationships" myself. Never had any that worked out, the odds in general are probably low that it'll go anywhere, and she may be hanging onto this on-line thing as a distraction or a way not to interact intimately with people (like you) in real life.

Well, now that you sort of turned things back to the "way they were" by telling her you didn't like her anymore, maybe you can approach her as a "friend" and just go out with her. Bring another friend or two along. Make it a group thing, it's more low-key.

In the future, don't ever feel like you should "take back" your feelings by telling somebody you "changed your mind" about them. It's not necessary. If they are not interested, they are not interested. At least you know, and you can move on. If they do happen to approach you, however, and are interested, it still leaves the door open for you - gives you more choices, in that you can either say "Great!" or you can say, "Thank you, but I'm not sure it will work out." It's about leaving options open.

And opening up your heart by saying "I like you" is never a bad thing. Leave it out there. It's courageous to leave it out there.

Try informal activity stuff with her. See if that flies.

Answer 3

if shes acting wierd around you, i would not tell her your interested. she's either not interested or too shy to say anything her self, so just remain friends. just show some friendly affection, and maybe she will open up around u and realize that online relationships are pointless and dumb.

Answer 4

no no no,,,,,,