One girl friend loves me and the other I love, who shouldd I dump and how?? I don't want to hurt their feelings and I don't want the one I dump still think there is hope she can get me.
2007-01-06 16:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by Dominik S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you have to choose now? Why not date both of them? There's nothing wrong with playing the field so long as both girls know that's the deal. I used to date 7,8,9 guys all at the same time but I never lied to any of them...they all knew what the deal was. One guy asked me, "Can I call you some time?" And I told him straight out, "I'm seeing six other guys and if that's OK with you then sure, call me...if not, don't call me." It is not wrong to date two people at the same time but it is wrong if you allow both to think they are the only one you are seeing.
2007-01-06 16:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by tas211 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldnt be going out with two girls at once anyway.. b/c this is what happens!! so if i give you the answer never do it again!! first of all DUH be with the girl that you love! only if she loves you back! second, never be with someone that you dont love as well, it only punishes you and the other person for as long as you attempt the relationship. and third if you really loved this girl then why are you with another??? maybe the best thing is to stop seeing them both, but if you must... go with the one that you love. the other girl may be hurt, but its just a heart break and she will get over it. im sure you have been through a heart break before, you never forget but you do move on. be nice and supportive but be sure to let her know that your heart belongs to another.
2007-01-07 00:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by bacardi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why do you have two girlfriends.....anywayz I would dump the one that likes you cause she isn't your love and you should go after the one that you love so you guyz can get together and get to know each other better and eventually she will like you....
2007-01-07 00:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dilawer Chechi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u r a handsome cool dude!
So i think u should propose that girl,whom u love and pass Ur beautiful moments with her.....
& the girl who loves u,tell her that u want to love her but ur family may not except ur dicision...That will not hurt anyone & no one will betrey u...Have a nice time..Dear!U r a lucky guy!
Best of luck!
2007-01-07 00:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both, get in church get a religion and ask God for the answer. PS. He won't lead you wrong.
2007-01-07 00:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by ***KBKB*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its better if you'd choose the person who loves you because the person who loves you chose you against other people. The person you love will leave you for the person they love.
Ask from your friends and please tell them to exclude bias. In the end, it's you who will decide.
P.s. Sometimes realtionships don't work out because there really is no mutual feelings. I dunno if this is true.
2007-01-07 00:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Arvin Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you don't deserve any of them as you were dating 2 girls at the same time.
2007-01-07 00:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by volleyballgirl1018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay look you cant lead a girl like thats just shity of a guy to do.
2007-01-07 01:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by RaWr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy! u are in a great trouble
2007-01-07 00:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by Catalyst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur not effing serious!this is not a question.ur a playerr.
2007-01-07 00:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋