It's like I'm never good enough for them. Are there any guys out there that don't cheat? I haven't met any yet. It really sucks. My heart is broken tonight, yet again. =[
2007-01-06 16:43:25 · 13 answers · asked by BloodyHell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, I'd never do it. It makes me sick. I'm guessing, it has absolutely NOTHING to do with you, NOTHING. Most men are just not very smart and very easily influenced. I'd say that the men not having respect for themselves is pretty accurate in most cases. Perhaps he was unable to believe he deserved a woman of your caliber and had to find a way to destroy things; I'm pretty sure that's what happened to a friend of mine. There are decent people out there; I'd like to think I'm one of them. If it makes you feel any better, these worthless mother f'ers actually make my life hellacious too. They wrecklessly hurt people and then make it very hard for them to trust genuine guys like me. You can't give up. It's good to come up with a plan b however. Mine is that if I'm single at age 30 I'm relocating...to another continent.
2007-01-06 17:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by The Royal Followills 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to let the guy know that you do not put up with cheaters from the beginning. If you have the reputation of letting then walk all over you then that's what they will do. Most guys are like dogs, they have to be trained. When you meed Mr. Right this will not happen anymore...Maybe you should try changing your standards & what you expect from a guy. Good Luck to you.
2007-01-06 16:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by SAM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll find him one day. And when you do, you'll know it and he'll never even think about cheating on you because he'll realize how amazing you are. And when that day comes, you'll look back at all these *** holes and laugh because you actually gave them the time of day. It hurts now but time heals everything. My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and I fell into a pile for weeks. But in your darkest moments you find strength you never knew you had. You'll come out of this on top, and you'll be a stronger, and wiser person because of it. Live and learn. And move on.
2007-01-06 16:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
men dont have respect for themselves and never know what they want. they are greedy and lustful. its not you. i see it all the time. a guy asked for my phone number and i told him i had a bf and he said he dont care. it happens to me all the time. dont feel bad. they stop making real men these days. back in the 70s was the last time i seen one. its bad to say but men are no good anymore. they make us women stressed and tired. they wont admit to this and neither will the women who support what they do. finding a real man is like a needle in a haystack. dont give up. mr. right will come one day. just let that sorry man go and move on. im in the same boat but i try to be strong. hang in there.
2007-01-06 16:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect yourself first of all. You sound like you have very low self esteem. Don't let people walk over you.Be strong & have a look at the type of men that you are attracted to or hanging around with.
2007-01-06 16:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Me. I don't cheat now, have never cheated, and will never cheat. It's a thoroughly disgusting thing to do. It's cruel torture. It's the worst form of betrayal you can put someone through. You can insult me, you can belittle me, you can disrespect me, you can even tell me straight to my face you don't love me and you only dated me because you felt sorry for me, but for the love of God, don't cheat on me.
2007-01-06 16:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by supensa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, youre the constant variable...not to be harsh it might be the way they let them treat you. If you let them walk all over you, or don't keep things exciting, guys will do that. Mix it up dude try some new ish, or start sticking up for yourself.
2007-01-06 16:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by BAMF* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something you are doing is giving them the signal that it is OK to screw you over. Find out what it is and kill it. I have never been cheated on.
2007-01-06 16:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its defining the relationship first that needs to be done first.. are you casually dating or is there a true commitment?
2007-01-06 16:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's you personally. I think maybe your dating the wrong kinds of guys though.
2007-01-06 16:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋