Today i was hangin out at my boyfriends work and he was acting really strange. He was giving me attitude and everytime i asked him why he was acting that way, he just said don't worry about it and would walk away. i think it was something to do with the job but he still made me want to cry and when i started tearing up he said that if i was going to cry i should just go home. we have been in a relationship for almost a year and a half. What do i do?
2007-01-06 16:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how that is. My bf of a yr is a manager and he ALWAYS has an attitude with me. It does have alot to do with the job. They say " You take your frustration out on the one you love the most". So somedays I let him get away with it, but other days, I look him dead in the eye and I tell him, "I am not your employee, I am your girlfriend, the love of your life. So I would like it if you would not take the work stuff out on me, I wasnt there. If you wanna talk about it, we can, but dont take it out on me. But I still Love You". That usually works with me. Good LUck
2007-01-06 16:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by daddyzgrl4u05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does he work with women ?? maybe he didn't want you there so he could hit on other woman at work. Sounds too me though that he was just having a bad day at work and his boss took something out on him..and not wanting to get fired for telling his boss off he took it out on you ..Did he trat you like sh!t when he got home from work ??
Ask him whats wrong and if he don't tell you.. go to your moms or a friends and stay for a few nights maybe then he'll learn not to treat you bad...
2007-01-06 16:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him who the new girl is, he doesn't want you around work and you can't take the hint. it's either someone that works there or someone that could show up at any time. he may be afraid one of his co-workers will let the cat out of the bag. it's a new girl though.
2007-01-06 16:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him some space. Tell him that if he ever needs to tell you something, he can, but don't pry.
2007-01-06 16:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by animefan95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to make him your ex-boyfriend.
2007-01-06 16:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. No second chances.
2007-01-06 16:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Michael da Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him
2007-01-06 16:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by homeslice191 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋