A few times that when I date girls, I still flirt and talk to other girls without my girlfriend knowing at the time. I get to where I'm meeting these girls at the movies. We don't kiss or anything. It's more like friends, but It's not if you know what I mean. Am I player? What should I do?
2007-01-06 16:41:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your a cheater! And its obvious your not getting what you need with your g/f who there is a COMMITMENT to. Sneaking to the movies or dinner or drinks make you very unfaithfully to your g/f. Maybe you should think of being single so you can play all you want!!! Cheater!!!
2007-01-06 16:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a player? I most definitely would not put you in the player catagory. You say that you go to the movies with other girls without your girlfriend knowing.I have to wonder why you are being sneaky,is it because you would like your so called friendships with these girls to materialize into something else?Or is it that you would like to be a player and are hoping this behavior puts you into that catagory.How do you feel about your girlfriend?Do you feel your sneaking off to the movies is worth losing your girlfriend?If so keep it up,otherwise I would suggest you be honest with her about what you are doing.
2007-01-07 01:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a player of LOW character. If you are on a date, your date deserves your full attention - not sharing it with others. Be honest with the girls you date about your interests in them. If you are not committed to one girl, you can date different ones but be sure they know what you are doing. They will appreciate it and they will all look at you as being a good person of high moral character. Someone they may like to call "friend"
2007-01-07 00:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpicker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your are a player because you don't represent your woman behind her back. When you flirt like that is sending the message "The reason you flirt is because your girlfriend isn't hot enough. " Number two yeah girls you flirt with already know you but you don't know them so sooner or later your girl will find out.
2007-01-07 00:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a girlfriend now, and your are doing this, why not invite your girlfriend along with you and the other girls. If you do it behind her back, then it is not fair to her. If you do not have a girlfriend right now and doing what you stated, then so what, do what you want. I think right now, maybe you do not really claim any girl as a real girlfriend except in name only.
2007-01-07 00:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre a cheat and a player-2.
2007-01-07 00:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you need to hide this from you're girlfriend you know you're doing something you shouldnt. Tell her. If she has a problem, don't do it anymore. If not, than be friends with all these girls and don't do anything more with them than that.
2007-01-07 00:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Bugz414 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you want your girlfriend to meet other guys at the movies? If you have to lie to her, you probably shouldn't be doing it, or better yet, don't have a girlfriend.
2007-01-07 00:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by thirdeye67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the potential to cheat. Why are you doing that? If you are hiding it, then you obviously think that it is wrong. If you don't want to stop, then leave your girlfriend and date casually then. You are doing that any how, so what's the difference?
2007-01-07 00:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by mightycute912 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a player and all of this will catch up to you. One thing you need to remember is........all girls share and talk....trust me, you won't get away with this for very long.
2007-01-07 00:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋