tell on her so this wedding does not happen please help
2007-01-06 16:41:19 · 27 answers · asked by livethegoodlife2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She is not married to him yet . . . but I would also ask her fiancee if he is nailing everything that moves, because his bride to be is.
If he acts that he knows all about it . . . then he is a freak . . . and this is one thing that gets him off.
2007-01-09 06:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask yourself how much you love your sister. If she is dying and this is for sure..... Her whole world as she's known it to be her whole life...is fixing to end. Do not presume to know what's inside of her mind or heart right now. She's probably scared...angry....and she may feel frantic to finish up some things in her life. It's her business, really.
Both you and the fiance will not be dying with her..... She will be doing that alone. AND! If she's wrong for cheating.... and she believes in God...then she's going to answer for her behavior soon enough. I personally think you should stay out of it.
However, someone pointed out that your knowledge of the situation does put you in a place where you could be considered a party to her wrong doing. If it were me, I'd have a long talk with her prior to the wedding. I would tell her that I do not approve of her behavior (despite the circumstances) or the pending marriage. AND! Because of that you will not be attending the wedding. Tell her you just can't.....and then don't go. THis will show her your very strong disapproval.
I'm sorry to hear of her cancer and wish things were different for her. And for your family. Facing ones own mortality isn't a fun thing for anyone....
2007-01-06 18:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother just passed from cancer last month.If your sister is cheating on her soon to be husband knowing she is about to die, she must not really care for him or she wouldn't be cheating on him.She would want to spend her last days with the person(s) she loved the most. Apparently it is not him.You also don't want your sister to get anger with you in her last days of living.I say yes even if she is dying of cancer just cause your dying doesn't mean you can ditch all ethics.So yes I would tell her soon to be husband, I mean the guy is marring a woman whom is about to die, do you think you would want to marry a man that was dying and then find out later you were living a lie thinking he loved you so very much but yet he didn't due to his infidelity? Yes I would defiantly tell the guy he deserves to know the truth.
2007-01-06 16:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
DONT SAY A WORD, Forget the fact thats she's dying and all that horrible stuff - she's ur sister u dont snitch on your sister no matter what the situation is. Your sister is dying if Cancer and this is what your concerned with??? With a sis like u who needs an enemy!
2007-01-06 17:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope don't say anything, your sister is already sick, let her live of whats left of her life, it may not be the right thing but you and i are not the ones who have been stricken with such a horrible illness.
You may want to talk to her and ask why she feels she must cheat on her soon to be husband, then you may decide. be wise about your decisions an take into consideration what she is going through..Good luck to you and your family.
I lost three friends and an Aunt to Cancer....
2007-01-06 16:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by charmed 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This man is so in love that he's marrying a dying woman?! Impending death does not give you the right to play the field. If she is engaged to be married to this man, unless he is mistreating her in some way, she should thank God that she has someone to be with her in her final hours!
I know you love your sister, but I don't think you want her to go this way. You should tell him and let everything get settled before she goes.
2007-01-06 16:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by stringer_G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so sad that your sister has cancer. My prayers are with you and your family. For the other situation, you need to make sure this wedding doesn't happen even if you have to be the one to tell him. She is doing him a great injustice and anyone who knows and is not telling him is doing him an injustice also. Good luck in telling him.
2007-01-06 17:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHE IS DYING!!!
May be there only getting married so he can drawl her social security spouses get something like that when a spouse die.
Why why do it? Let it go..she is going to die. Drop it let them live there lives and move on.
Shouldn't you be more upset and focus on her death and spending time with her. Or is this some sick way your handling her death. By upsetting every one else.
She may want a wedding before she dies!!!
2007-01-06 16:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd do anything. She's dying. When she's gone, what difference will it make anyway. Do you really want to do this to your own sister? Are you telling us the whole story? There's something wrong with this picture.
2007-01-06 16:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mike T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 17:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes dying.. If she lives past the wedding and still cheats after she is well then i would do something.. Otherwise honestly she has the right to do stupid things...
2007-01-06 16:45:47 · answer #11 · answered by peachescl2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋