My friend Josh was with his girl for a year and they were about to move in together last summer. Before that they were best friend for almost a year, teased each other playfully, etc. So Josh said like while they were together they would tease each other. Like for expample she'd always call him retarded if he did something weird or whatever. And he'd call her stupid or idiot if she did something weird. He said when they were together in person she would laugh and playfully hit him, but then one time last summer he called her that on the phone and she would start crying and he wouldnt understand why. So a few days after that she broke up with him just 2 weeks before they were gonna move in together and then she was living with a guy a few weeks after that. She told Josh she cried all the way to work bc of that and her family problems. What do you all think of this situation?
2007-01-06 16:02:55 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She also met this guy Matt online who lives across the country. She met him six months before her and Josh hooked up. She never met him in person. She talked to Matt on the phone though and he would say "i feel so close to you....our kids would be beautiful" and they were only talking for a month online. So then her and Josh hook up and she is flirting with Matt on myspace leaving him comments flirting. They resolved that, but like Matt would email Josh saying he should back off and he will f**king kill him etc. So she deleted Matt off myspace. Well a few weeks after Josh and her break up and Matt is back on her friends list and I saw one of her comments to him... "youknow you missed me..." And yet during Josh and her's relationship she would always tell Josh how she feels foolish for trusting Matt after what he turned out to be.
2007-01-06 16:03:09 · update #1
That's a pretty sad story. I personally believe that tiny, itsy-bitsy jokes like that can even lead to something large. I could make a small joke about someone and they could take it the wrong way, and I could have lost my best friend. I always try to avoid joking with people, even if they joke towards me. I don't mind having people joke about me, but I always try to limit what I say in response. It can lead to fights, battles, murders, and many issues. However in the situation mentioned when the girl started crying after Josh called her, I have no response. I don't understand why she started crying. Perhaps there was a part that was left out that caused her to cry. Maybe she fell in love with another guy because she was getting tired of Josh. However if it really is her family problems, she probably shouldn't have put any affect on her boyfriend. She should still be engaged in her long-lasting relationship, rather than break it up so fast. Maybe you should ask your friend, Josh, to talk to her about what happened and try to resolve something? This is pretty sad to hear, but I hope that everything works fine for them, especially after they have known each other so long that they're going to live together.
2007-01-06 20:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she was crying over that. I think it was just an excuse to break up with him since she seemed to move on so fast with Matt.
2007-01-07 00:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a prostitute. she only wanted to go out with the other guys and stop seeing Josh. It is only a bad excuse to stop seeing him.
2007-01-07 00:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by vgvp67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the stupidest sh*it I've ever heard. Go get a real life and stop being so sensitive. Can't she take a joke? Seriously....
2007-01-07 00:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is messed up in the head. i hate women who don't respect themselves let alone other people. josh needs something better. good luck to all of you
2007-01-07 00:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat is sad and i feel soo sorry for josh seriously dat girl has no feelings for josh
2007-01-07 03:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by damn_baby56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but shes a 2-faced B****
I just feel sorry for Josh
2007-01-07 00:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by icedxtear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"One Life To Live" is missing one of its writers.
2007-01-07 00:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, a lot of explaining and typing, but still yes.
2007-01-07 00:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by newsies62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wut a freak of a girl. I would cry because I am very emotional and I become a mess if a boy winks at me.
2007-01-07 00:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋