was comein to get me and he didnt show up so today he told me he was comein to see me well he didnt and this is the 3rd time this has happen back to back i want to call him but then again i dont cuz i dont know what to say or what to tell him should i yell cuss and scream or should i be kind nice and calm about it cuz im bout fed up with it so plz somebody help me out. Thanx
2007-01-06 16:01:21 · 14 answers · asked by angellious2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be open and honest with him, and tell him how this makes you feel. If he has a good reason, and does not lie to you(though I believe three times in a row is a bit inexcusable), talk it out. If he tries to b s you and lie his way through it, then I would definately agree with yelling and cussing and all that good stuff
2007-01-06 16:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your bf is to comfortable in the relationship and don't think you will do anything. Yelling a screaming only causes more stuff to yell and scream about. Maybe you should tell him you need a break and let him know that you feel like he don't appreciate you. Don't let a guy treat you bad because if you do he will always do it. Be strong because if he really cares about you he would not lie to you.
2007-01-07 00:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by betterwithage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a little mixture of cussing and being nice. if something came up or if he changed his mind about comin to c u he should have called and not had your hopes high. u should ask him wats his problem and has he been ditching you. maybe he's just wanting to break up or back off from you.
2007-01-07 00:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by p-jump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know it bothered you & then pretend like it was no big deal.... brush it off... most men NOT ALL don't think about things like that. It will happen to you over and over and over and over... what's really important to you????? Is he there in the most desperate times? That's what really matters... not birthdays, annivarsaries.... those things happen but when you turn around and he's there for you, that's the BEST!!!!
2007-01-07 00:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha! Your boyfriend is a flake. He's just playing around with you. You should start playing around with his feelings too. Next time he calls you to meet up, tell him you can't because you're going out on a date.
2007-01-07 00:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before u call him , try taking deep breathes and remind yourself dont lose control...Over the phone, you can ask him the reason of why he stood you up for 3 times....
2007-01-07 00:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by cheeryviola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea same situation my bf always tells me he promises to call me and that but then he never does so even when i ask him he says he will but he dont. i just told him how i felt and that it made me upset
2007-01-07 00:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt come to see you in that long of a period of time and especially for your birthday you should dump him no questions asked.
2007-01-07 00:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by jeremy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to reevaluate your relationship. He might not be as serious as you think he is. Good Luck=)
2007-01-07 00:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by NickynJessie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve an explanation as to why he hasn't been keeping his word to seeing you.
2007-01-07 00:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sa_San 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋