my ex bf wanted me to pee in his mouth. This is a serious question: Im wondering if this is grounds to break up with him? Has anyone experienced anything like this before?
2007-01-06 15:57:49 · 26 answers · asked by Mad Max 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a man.
2007-01-06 15:58:08 · update #1
Some people are into golden showers. If you are not comfortable doing this, tell him that you aren't into it. IF he is ok with it, then great, if not, then maybe it's time to find a new man.
2007-01-06 16:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer here---your ideas of sex play is not the same as his--so move on---he will find someone to do what he wants. Sex is supposed to be a pleasure and an expression of love and caring--not who can do what to who. He seems to have no interest in pleasing you or honoring your concerns--of course people do pee on people---he just needs to find one.
2007-01-06 16:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is unusual, but some people have different, albeit odd fetishes. if you are okay with it, then enjoy, as long as you know you don't have anything you can transmit to him. if you have problems with it, talk it out first and see if there's something else you can do instead in the fetish department, and then maybe build up to the kinkier stuff. good luck! it could be grounds to break up if you are still uncomfortable with it, and he wants you to do it anyway.
2007-01-06 16:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by fan_of_the_dolphins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't comfortable doing it, don't do it.
If it's something he would like to do, but he can live without it, breaking up with him might be an over reaction.
On the other hand, if he's going to be seriously frustrated unless he gets it, I'd say the two of you are not compatible.
2007-01-06 16:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a Sex and the City episode about this actually and she dumps him. If it's something that he keeps pressuring you about, then you should break up with him. Don't base your entire relationship on this one sexual request though.
2007-01-06 16:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if u should break up with him but that is not hot! if its ur ex bf why would u be wondering about breaking up with him..ne who just tell him ur not into that kind of stuff ;)
good luck
2007-01-06 16:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good reason to break up with him.. If you're not comfortable with doing that and your sex needs don't match, then you both probably wouldn't have been happy anyway.
2007-01-06 16:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has a name, silver-----. No, tell him you don't like those sexual games. I saw this in a Passoliny picture, so imagine the porky thing came in.
If he insists in these games , tell him to get anther girl that will appreciate them, because they produce you anger, disrespect, and yuk.
2007-01-06 16:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need psychiatric help call 214 994 4447 ask for Gerald and he'll be right with you . it works too. my bf got help from him... it only works if your in Dallas Texas by the way
2007-01-06 16:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by GellyBelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not grounds to break up with him, its hard to admit to your partner if you are into something weird or kinky, you shouldnt make someone feel bad about something like that, just explain that it makes you uncomfortable and move on
2007-01-06 16:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋