I have absouloutly no guy friends. Its pretty sad. I wanna actually have guy friends. I wanna be more outgoing and talkative and stuff. But I cant just go up to a guy and be like, Hi! im melissa! thatd be weird. i dont know what to say, or how to act. i just want them to like me you know? so what do i do?
2007-01-06 15:57:23 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ,im 12 i dont no much about this kind of thing. But i do have lots of guy friends and they pretty cool to have. BUt one thing u allways want to be nice just when u see a guy u would want to be friends with just walk by them and say "hi" and just keep on walking do that once in awile, not every time u see him though that will just creep him out. once u have said he a few times just when u see him alone, go up to him and say like just a friendly Q like "Arent u in my (place class here). or mabey just say "do u no (place a persons name here)? Just be friendly oh and it may take awile. Oh and the best way to do it is if u have any friends that have a brother u wouldent mind be friends with just do those same tips i just showed u. Oh and dont be to demanding ! Good luck , c ya
2007-01-06 16:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tegan W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you make female friends. Obviously you should be in a situation where you'd feel comfortable just talking to a guy in general. you could just be standing next to him randomly or it could be a classmate/co-worker. You can ask them about a book they're read or ask what they think about a class or event. Or even better ask them for advice that only a "guy" could give. If they do something that you thought was great ,you could start up a conversation by complimenting them. To "stay" friends you drop the line, you're such a nice guy, we should keep in touch. Get his number or e-mail and invite him out if you're hanging out with other firends or see if he ever wants to grab lunch. To stay plantonic, you mention liking other guys, don't flirt, keep personal space, and don't casual touch him. In other words, treat him like an older brother.
2007-01-06 16:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with be yourself.If you really want to have guy friends that are just friends and not future boyfriends.Then you have to kinda get into things they like.Has a girl you came preprogrammed to know how to talk make up and clothes with other girls.But unless you are or were a tomboy or had a lot of brothers or male friends growing up it is hard to get along with them.I am personally better at getting along with men then other woman.All of my friends except for 1 or 2 were guys.So it is easier for me to relate to them.You can take up an interest in sports or cars or some other male bonding practice.It is alot easier than you think to make friends with guys.They aren't real complicated creatures.Give them food,tools,a t.v. and they are happy.They are not good friends if your a the judgemental type or like to trash people.Guys are way more loyal friends than girls.They don't like to gossip about the other people in you circle of friends.And you also need to drop the whole earge that us woman are born with to ***** about stuff they don't like to hear it.And the obsessive need that some woman feel to be the center of attention if you have that drop it to.Remember they are your friends not boyfriends or husbands. Don't play dress up and try to impress them that way it won't work.And don't get mad if they don't notice that you got your hair done they don't care.If they truly accept you into their circle has a friend and not pretending to like you to try to get you into bed.You could show up in torn up blue jeans a sweat shirt and ball cap and they won't care or even notice.O.k. enough info.Now go make new friends.
2007-01-06 16:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Melissa. Let's begin this way. Learn to like yourself. Learn to accept yourself as you are, with no judgment, with complete acceptance. You are, after all, the best friend you'll ever have. You are the greatest and most wonderful person you know. If you can learn to truly love yourself, to recognize that you are unique in your own universe, then you will find that meeting others will be easy. After all, most of us feel uncomfortable with ourselves and we are drawn toward those who know themselves. Love yourself and others will naturally love you. Believe me, it works this way.
2007-01-06 16:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would saying "Hi I'm Melissa" be weird? Unless your name isn't Melissa then you're right that would be weird.
2007-01-06 16:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bump into them (someone nice), and say "Oh, im sorry, i didn't mean to do it. I hope i didn't hurt you." And they'll chuckle and say "its okay." And then say your name "Hi, im melissa." Then he'll say his name, and then you'll ask him "Where are you going?" And he'll tell you his class, you tell him your class, and walk him there. If he thinks your more than friends then tell him your just friends.
2007-01-06 16:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by ggirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say meet them at work. There should be less sexual tension there and you can seperate that out if you only want to be friends
2007-01-06 16:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by vertical c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a sports bar watch a game you will have a guy friend in no time
2007-01-06 16:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by ac_ohfosho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-06 15:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to kids in school classes. talk to them just like ud talk to ur girl friends.
2007-01-06 15:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by You Know It! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋